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Can ABF relationships be initially achieved from the very start of the relationship. Or is ABF a very sensitive proclivity that must be discovered through a partner you have already developed an emotional connection with by serendipity.
I personally need the emotional connection which is why I’m seeking anr and not abf.
People are so selective that they never end up meeting anyone.
I’m not saying people should lower their standards but, don’t expect to meet the 1% man/woman.
I think it is possible to just meet up and fulfill immediate needs. I will say that the times I’ve met with someone with whom I have a prior emotional/mental connection is always more powerful and amazing to me.
Emotional connection is essential for long term relationship. It is not easy to find. Needs lot of patience.
Besides that, there are many other minor factors affects the meeting and being connected.
Good luck to all.All good points; basically what I am gathering it will take years to develop chemistry with a Woman before she allows a mate to suckle on Her bosom.
After all her trepidations and doubts have been alleviated.
But again this will take a considerable amount of time and patients.
I have been fortunate enough to meet five suckling partners within the past year. Three of them were from this site. With all five, we were suckling by date #2. Hope this helps.
Vin
In my experience (this site’s name being the exception)
ABF is Adult Breast Feeding, usually implying a single or series of encounters, with less focus on the relational aspect and more likely a sexual aspect.
ANR is an Adult Nursing Relationship, which is usually a deeper, long-standing relationship. Less focus on sexual activity and more focus on intimacy of the act and the bonding.
So, in answer to the question, it really comes down to what each partner is looking for and that means we need to be aware of the difference, and explicit in our language.
I have had ABF encounters. I have had a limited ANR that last 5+ years.
That ANR started as an ABF encounter– and then things developed from there. Though I think that was a rare occurrence, once-in-a-lifetime. Though hope springs eternal.It depends on yours and her desires. ABF might be just the ticket that leads to anr. Having met a few wonderful women on this site, I will say that having chatted and building a rapport was key for the both of us to enjoy each other. Being friends mad each encounter special.
One should be careful when determining their ideal partner. You may miss out on her if you are too selective.From what I’m reading having a ABF is a lot easier than a ANR which I feel I’m more in tune with the former would be nice if it develop to a ANR but I’m more into the erotic side, not for any nourishment or nurturing or cosmic revelations.
It definitely takes trust, whether wanting to nurse a casual ABF or looking for longer term connection.
Even casual ABF requires trust enough to be alone with someone in a vulnerable and intimate situation.
To do so comfortably rapport and trust needs to be established to whatever level both people require so the tension and anxiety is low.
an Anonymous member wrote me and assured me he had several frequent ABF encounters within the last two years and the connections were formed instantly. So it’s definitely possible although the member may be very Handsome which im sure helps lol.
I prefer abf. I like to be anonymous even if it’s a repeat arrangement and I would never be exclusive to one person unless I was dating them. But for me, abf is a side activity that’s not sexual or romantic
I think abf/anr require trust and connection by many women, as in most intimate acts. Probably more so abf/anr by their nature. Women AND men seeking abf/anr are usually seeking the connection and nurturing feeling whether or not they also want a erotic, sexual component.
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