Is ABF/ANR a secret?

[☕ Jacob 🏔️]

I recognize that most people keep their kinks “behind closed doors.” But I would liken an ANR more to a lifestyle than a kink, because of it’s ongoing commitment either to nursing time with each other, or a pumping schedule. And that could be before milk comes in, once the milk comes in those times are obviously even more important.

So for anyone involved in an ANR, does anyone at all know?

Is the secret part of the allure?

For me, I feel like the secret that I would share with my partner would very much be an enjoyable part of it. But I also feel like if someone were to discover our secret, that I wouldn’t be incredibly embarrassed, and would be able to explain it, and describe it’s appeal.

Has anyone been discovered? And had to explain/share their lifestyle?

[Brian]

It’s definitely not something I would share unless I knew the other person is interested. This type of information could be very damaging to someone’s reputation if it got into the wrong hands. It seems to invite a lot of accusation, and speculation from those who don’t understand. I have personally experienced this. For me the allure is the deep bond afforded by nursing.

[Daisy🍊🥛]

Hi, Jacob,
I stand with you. Its between two people ( in my case, i know some people dont want to limit anr).
To me its not necessarily a secret, but at first it would be between my partner and me. I dont care to know what other people do in their relations, its up to them. What I do is my business. I am a private person.
But like you said above: when comfortable in an anr, i would not be embarrassed when other people would find out. I would want to talk about it to people who are really interested to hear. I certainly would not change anything, since i am not doing anything wrong.

[~btrfly~ 🦋]

It absolutely is for me. It’s too intimate to share outside of the anr world and it’s meant to be shared with someone special. But it definitely something that I cherish and love, so those whom I share it with, will experience a love like no other, that is felt thru my nursing. It’s kinda sacred. Ya know! 🥰 or so I’m told. ❤️

[☕ Jacob 🏔️]

Thank you for your answers.

I definitely wouldn’t wear it on my sleeve, and announce to just anyone. I just wondered if anyone out there has ever had to broach the topic when someone discovered them.
Like I said, the secret would be a definite source of play, maybe subtle attraction. When it’s time, and she makes eyes at you letting you know you need to wrap up what you’re doing. That sort of thing.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it would be as fun unless it was kind of a secret. Being really into something that’s sort of taboo and kinky gives a feeling like no other. I think it definitely spices things up.

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