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Did you ladies ever consider the fact that maybe the person was just saying hello, and if you don’t want to have a friendship with them or anything else, why not just say no thank you?
Do creeps ever consider the fact that the person doesn’t want or need you to say hello, and that the person isn’t required to meet your rude demands of a conversation or attention and speak to you?
You disrespect the peace and safety of others because you feel entitled to niceness from a woman. If you didn’t feel entitled, you wouldn’t be so offended. You would understand the problem isn’t getting blocked, but that you were disrespectful in making unwanted contact. You hide behind the concept of basic decency, but ignore that basic decency wouldn’t even be to bother someone who wouldn’t be interested in hearing from you. Basic decency would be to respect a person’s wishes to not be bothered by you.
And by all means, please do not sit here and pretend to be mature or respectful, or that you understand anything regarding basic civility. After my last post, you messaged me “Okay, I get it. Like this right?” VERY quickly, and then immediately blocked me as soon as the message was sent.
This is maturity? This is basic civility?
Smh. You say you are one thing but you keep keep airing your own self out for all to see.
ALL OF THIS!!!
Hiding behind and using “civility” and “politeness” to pressure a woman to speak with you makes you the bad guy, not her.
Most blocking situations are caused by one’s own self, so if you are offended, so is everyone else being forced to deal with you.
There have been more than a few times that I have seen a newbie and welcomed them to this league of extraordinary individuals. Men and women respond or they don’t. Normally, it’s just a thank you.
Nothing creepy about that.
Definitely different than being pressured to respond or receiving many unwarranted messages.
I will keep trying to be nice to folks on here snd elsewhere.
Toodles.