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@dairydaisy, you are right. There is much more in life than breasts and nursing. Relationship can flourish when you share and ready to experience every aspect of life together. There should be more things explore. ANR can be essential part of life.
Spicy,
I don’t think I’m a good writer neither ever connect to poems. May blame my engineering/scientific background. But would like to share a poem which I came across my only lowest time of life and inspired me to look ahead brlow:
Sailing on life’s wide, relentless sea, Faces appear, then fade from view, you see.
Some are but whispers, a fleeting breeze, Leaving scarcely a ripple, or unease.
Then come the anchors, holding firm and fast, Their presence etched, a memory to last.A guiding star, a comfort in the night, They touch the soul, and fill it with new light.
A deeper mark, a change you can’t deny, A silent promise whispered in a sigh.
Yet, even when the dearest souls depart, Leaving a hollow, aching in the heart,
The world keeps spinning, dawn still breaks anew, And life, relentless, finds a way for you.
The gaps they leave, though vast and stark they seem, Are slowly, softly, filled by life’s own dream.
New joys arrive, new lessons to embrace, And time, the healer, finds its gentle pace.
For though some shadows linger, long and deep, Life’s river flows, and secrets it will keep.
People that you’ve connected with and have had numerous conversations with…Especially if it turns into weeks and months long conversations of getting to know each other…
For them to suddenly just stop texting, or completely disappear…
I’ll never quite understand.
It just does not make sense to me how people can so easily dismiss others from their lives without a word. Without even having an awkward conversation.
I also feel that sometimes there is an element of the other person feeling like the conversation isn’t developing quickly enough into asexual one. And then they ghost. I’ve experienced this myself.
There seems to be very few people (my personal experience) that can compartmentalize their love of abf/kink and also not completely and totally objectify the person on the other end. One doesn’t have to cancel out the other. You can love the idea of abf/erotic lactation, but also love the idea of getting to know people and making new connections.When in a genuine ANR type relationship, whether it is purely for the ABF side of things or perhaps for the full relationship/lifestyle; one thing has always struck me..
..that is, how intense the bond and trust becomes and how it is to be cherished.It is immensely more powerful when the relationship (whichever version you have) is more about the link and personality than any other single thing.
Aesthetics are great, but they do not lend themselves to the true feeling between to minds, two hearts or two souls.Ms. Spicy, so sorry to hear about your mom. Respect for the way you are dealing.
Brian, I agree. Living meaningfully is so important and fulfilling. Most peolpe ( inclusief myself) learn this the hard way. Live changing events happened and afterwards concluding you need to live in a different way. Better selfmade. Physically and even more important: mentally.I have had a few conversations with people that have been difficult. However, sometimes it’s hard to make someone understand a point of view. What is most important to me is to listen to my conscience in terms of having done what I could given the circumstances.
Hi DD! What you wrote is true. Life changing events allow us to loose the inertia and make changes. In my case it was coming here, which I hope 🤞 was a good thing the community but that’s still up in the air loll.
“i am water
soft enough
to offer life
tough enough
to drown it away”
MsSpicy I loved reading your post. You are so open and honest, I just wish I could give you a big hug 🤗
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