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Saw this posted on a different site and HEAVILY disagreed with it. And I’m not being biased. Here’s what the post said.
TLDR: CHAT GPT BAD for anr site reviews and they are horribly wrong.
WHAT CHATGPT HAD To Say ABOUT 4 PLACES TO MEET PEOPLE FOR ANR/ABF
Here’s a side-by-side comparison of four sites you asked about — ANRelationships, ABF Heaven, MilkSweetMilk, and FetLife — summarising user reviews (pros & cons), and ranking them from most favourable to least favourable based on what I found. Caveat: niche-site reviews are thin, many user comments are anecdotal, so treat this as guidance not gospel.
ANRelationships
Overall verdict: Among the best reviewed of the group for ANR/ABF-specific connection.👍 Pros
Review from DatingSpot24 gives it a “legitimate platform … we could not find any evidence of a scam”.
DatingSpot24.com
+1Positives listed: niche-specific registration questionnaire; member pool looks real; operation since 2016.
DatingSpot24.comTestimonials on their own site give positive user feedback: “I really like this site. … very easy to contact the women who have posted their profiles …”
ANRelationshipsScamAdviser gives the site an “average to good trust score”.
ScamAdviser👎 Cons
Some user commentary suggests the site is “extremely prohibitive for men”. For example: > “I’ve met a couple women on ANRelationships … but from what I hear, it sounds like I got lucky. The site is extremely prohibitive for men.”
reddit.comA negative is that you may need to pay for full features (VIP membership) to access all capabilities.
DatingSpot24.comBecause it’s a niche site, the user base may be smaller, limiting local matches or rapid responses.
✅ Summary
If you’re specifically seeking an ANR/ABF-oriented site and are willing to pay or wait, ANRelationships appears to be one of the stronger options.
🔍 Rating: ~8/10 for niche ANR/ABF.
ABF Heaven
Overall verdict: Mixed to low user review results, but some positive commentary in niche forums.👍 Pros
On their forum, some users praise the community: “ABFHeaven is the best site I’ve found. … Kudos to Michael and the rest of the team.”
ABF HeavenThe forum is active: e.g., the General Discussion section has many topics and replies.
ABF Heaven👎 Cons
On mainstream review sites: SiteJabber gives rating ~2.1 stars from 29 reviews.
Sitejabberforum commentary: > “ABF Heaven is a garbage site and the guy that runs it is a complete ASS. STAY AWAY!”
Dating Sites ReviewsSome complaints of bots or fake accounts: > “Today I came across a member I suspect was a bot. …”
reddit.com✅ Summary
ABF Heaven appears to have a loyal niche user base, but also significant complaints regarding management, user-quality and trustworthiness.
🔍 Rating: ~5-6/10 (good in niche, but uneven reliability).
MilkSweetMilk
Overall verdict: Less strong evidence, more issues with feature/paywall and small user base.👍 Pros
One review mentions the site is “easy to navigate … user-friendly interface and straightforward features”.
DatingSpot24.com👎 Cons
Forum comments (on a review aggregation site) indicate that the free features were scaled back and many functions moved behind paywall: > “MilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn’t last long as a free site. … You now must pay to: see when people were last online; send/receive photos; etc.”
Dating Sites ReviewsImplied issue: Many women may have been inactive (“majority of women have not logged in since July”) according to that forum.
Dating Sites ReviewsLess detailed user review presence compared to the other sites.
✅ Summary
MilkSweetMilk might be a usable option, but has drawbacks (smaller active pool, paywalls, potential inactivity) that may reduce its viability for your goal.
🔍 Rating: ~4-5/10.
FetLife
Overall verdict: Largest platform, but least tailored to your specific ANR/ABF goal and many complaints.👍 Pros
It’s large, widely known: described as “free to join and use … dive into the world of kinks without breaking the bank.”
wondermamas.com
+1Some reviews highlight its value as a social network for kink/fetish, with many groups and community interaction. > “Fetlife community is real. … there are some pretty good forums for learning…”
DatingScout👎 Cons
Very low user ratings: e.g., SiteJabber rating ~1.7 stars from 31 reviews.
Sitejabber
+1Many complaints: account lockouts, poor customer support, large number of inactive/old profiles, too many fake/spam accounts. > “Absolute Scam … my account was deleted for no reason … No one is there to help.”
Trustpilot“Lots of fake profiles … outdated user interface … not a site for people looking for hookups and online dating.”
Kasual
+1Important: It’s a social network, not primarily a dating site for matching specific relationship types. This means if you’re specifically seeking ANR/ABF, you may need to do more work. > “The search feature is deliberately limited … you’ll need to filter a lot.”
Wikipedia
+1✅ Summary
FetLife is a big platform, with many users and possible reach — but it is the least specialized for ANR/ABF, has more safety/quality issues, and would likely require more effort and patience.
🔍 Rating: ~3-4/10 (for your specific ANR/ABF focus).
Ranking (Best → Worst for ANR/ABF use)ANRelationships (~8/10)
ABF Heaven (~5-6/10)
MilkSweetMilk (~4-5/10)
FetLife (~3-4/10)
My personal Ranking
#1 Abfheaven 9/10 I’ve been here since the beginning. Site moderation is consistent and you will always find new members everyday. And sometimes even local to you…every couple months. AND ITS FREE!
#2 Dreamsofmilk 7/10 (It’s kind of dead but you will maybe find someone like once a year) Membership fee is lifetime and cheap but personally I’d just stick to Abfheaven
#3 Fetlife 2/10 Can find someone but the site is a sex site instead of a dating site so there’s more bad eggs. (Thats such a cheesy saying but its true lol)
#4 Milksweetmilk 1/10 I’ll be honest I never found a real user here and if there are real users they aren’t active.
#5 Anrelationships 1/10 (scam dont bother)
1 thing I forgot to add is Michael is a good admin. He is a nice admin. Lol.
ABF heaven is the best site, why anyone needs or uses other sites is so disrespectful
Thank you for posting this Nick.I would not think too high of the information you found.
This site is very active as opposed to ANR. So its not strange to find more reviews on a site thats active. On ANR its very slow. Men are on there to have a free look around. A nice conversation is rare.
The rest of the comments: what i like about this site, is that Michael_admin is actually on here. He doesnt accept certain behaviour. People got kicked out for it. No wonder there are some less positive reviews from people who dont have too much self reflection.
Lots of reviews only mean a site is active. Always see for yourself what its like.
I love this community also because its possoble just to hang out and have fun. Its more then a dating site. You actually can make friends if you want.I agree with Daisy that the volume of reviews can come from unhappy people that got kicked out.
We all have bad experiences with people we interact, but in the end we shall ask ourselves whose fault was it. And it is not the admin’s fault. Michael is regularly removing people when reported.
What I like about this site is that it allows you to connect with people not necessarily for a relationship but mainly to have friendships that don’t even involve talking about ANR/ABF. We all are here because of ANR/ABF, so talking about it is not needed. I just wanna know people and if I make long lasting connections, great! If I meet a person for a relationship, also great, if not, also great. I am very happy with myself, don’t have a void to fill.
So, that site is really great if people stay and take time to define what they are searching for. It maybe is a process for most of us, but it is definitely not a bad website.
I have had a lot of very nice conversations on this website. I met friends and stayed in touch. If anything, that side of kindness and friendship is more than enough to stay here and support each other.
Bad reviews? They will always be there. I find this interesting that happy and satisfied people will write less of reviews than unhappy and upset people that possibly left or got kicked out. So, it is always biased.
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