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Hi I have a female friend who would love a cuddle and her and I have worked really hard on our codependency but I want to know if she would be interested in ANR/ABF but don’t want to ruin things. ?
Perhaps an opportunity might come up to talk about a situation where inducing lactation might be involved such as a friend’s adoption or someone feeding a friend’s baby. If she doesn’t know about inducing that might be a time to introduce the idea. Based on her reaction you would know whether to take it further or not. Best of luck.
You could introduce the topic to her through either a movie with a ABF/ANR scene or some sort of media, and ask more generally what are her thoughts on adults nursing. Then it is more a topic of conversation rather than a directed personal question.
I like Art’s idea a lot. I think it would make sense to tell her that you have heard about babies in the hospital that need fresh mother’s milk regularly to live another day but there is no one to provide it. So at the hospital they have to feed them milk substitutes instead. And recently you heard about inducing lactation and want to try it, but would need a partner. You aren’t sure who to ask but it is important to you. And you were less comfortable about asking her, but…
And if you could, I think it would be great if you did decided to donate your milk too. I think it is so beautiful when you ladies feed a friend, a partner, and/or a lover and also find someone that desperately needs it like these precious babies in the hospital. Also, I hear that cancer patients need it to fight that ugly cancer inside them also. I’m sure you know how they need the nutrients, and especially the antibodies, in your precious milk. I think they should issue t-shirts with that huge “S” on it to all you precious ladies that find it it in your heart to donate your extra milk to them. You are truly Super-Women because of your precious hearts that compel you to give in this way. There is no other equal substitute that supplies it. And they need it so desperately. This could turn into something so special for you, if you did.
Thanks so much she is very kink affirming and has been a domme in the past and is aware that this is something I expressed interest in but I haven’t directly asked her if she would like to help me induce.
Together you can watch the 2019 A&E Documentary “Sex for Sale”. Free on demand, it tells the story of 4 separate journeys through the sex industry, including that of a 30 something Canadian call girl by the name of Lady Kay. One day she decides to add “Erotic Lactation” to her services in order to better compete with the younger girls. The move works spectacularly, as she soon tells interviewer Elizabeth Vargas that ALL of her clients are with her for lactation. Then comes her “play by play”answer to Elizabeth’s question of how she tells her clients how to properly latch….”Take as much of the breast in your mouth as you can. Do not use your teeth. Suck HARD. When you can feel the nipple near the back of your throat, we’re in a good place”. That scene alone will go a long way to setting the right mood. I watch this with all my ANR partners.
Hi Dakota. It looks like you and her have a good relationship already, but only you will know just how strong it is. Don’t risk spoiling it and losing her as a friend, but if you are honest and open with each other in general then you could just bring it up in conversation.
Being a lady-to-lady discussion there are a lot of aspects of breastfeeding that you can talk about in order to gauge her reaction.
Overall, don’t rush, don’t over-expect and be mindful of diving straight into the deep end if it doesn’t feel natural.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
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