How can i convince my gf about ANR

[Adam77]

Hi im looking of an advise how to convince my gf for breastfeeding. We tried it once for 5 min and she thought it was long. But she liked it and want to try again. Yet she thinks its a kink and related to childhood or mommy thing. Idk how to proceed.

[TechieSFBay]

Isn’t convincing someone akin to convincing someone to be gay or not be gay?

[kelly]

Challenging, if she already has those preconceptions. told her how you got interested, and how much would mean to you for your relationship.

[btrfly]

You can’t convince anyone to do anything. And you shouldn’t want too. As a partner, What you should want to do, Is provide reassurance.

Nursing is intimate. it’s loving and it’s bonding. This is whe tree e commnication is important. Opening yourself up to your own volverabilty and Explaining why this is important to you. And of course why you enjoy it.

Also, what you do behind closed doors is nobody’s business.. so their wouldn’t be any judgements from anyone “why” she liked it.

This is a delicate balance, of love , trust, and open communication.

You have to communicate. Otherwise she may shut down on the idea. And your opportunity for open discussion will be lost.

[Nick]

You said she liked it. In that reference, I’ll suggest that you make it part of your foreplay and gradually increase time. She may get used to it and may want more.
Good luck.

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