Here’s how to deal with harassing/ pestering Private Messages on ABFheaven

[Michael_Admin]

You are receiving harassing PMs?
Here’s what to do…

1. Block them.
2. Take a screenshot of the offending messages
3. Send it to me, Admin here

I always investigate, and quickly.
The person sending such messages simply has their account deleted, with immediate effect. Your name is not mentioned.

So there’s no need to put up with this. Simply report it.
Such “problem users” can then be quickly identified and removed.
You’re helping to keep this site a safe place for all.

Thankyou!

[Anonymous]

Thanks Michael. Is it worth pinning this post for quick and easy reference, if people want to find the link?

[Anonymous]

And new members joining will see it?

[Flowrgardn]

Thank you, Michael and good idea Rachy J.

[Aprince]

Nice! I read about the issue last night and believed you’d be the guy to get in the loop.

[Michael_Admin]

Hi Rachel, yes I made it pinned to top in topics list, might help.

[Milky]

Awesome!!!

Everyone should feel safe about any website they use, but more-so especially a site with such a delicate and nurturing subject, such as ABFHeaven is!!

Keep up the good work Michael!!

[The Milk Machine]

I have a question for the ladies would you tell the person that bothered you in a dm that they offended you and then bock them…. or would you just block them or would you try to let them make amends provided its something amendable

[Anonymous]

@titlover, I usually will tell someone when they are being dumb, but let’s be real: most men know when they’re being inappropriate.

[Milly]

I would use this service – If I had made it clear to someone that I was not interested due to age or location etc – sometimes men have found it difficult to understand the words “NO Thank you “ and become abusive.

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