Happy Hunting–AKA where else do you look?

[Anonymous]

This question is mainly directed at my fellow relationship seekers who are looking for ANR as part of an ongoing romantic relationship with someone special. I am well-aware of tinder and other hookup options for casual play, but when seeking something serious and long-term, there’s not a lot of avenues for meeting serious ANR enthusiasts beyond this site. Reddit. Fetlife. Other kink sites? Vanilla dating? What have you tried? Those who are partnered, what worked for you? This site? Something else? How long did you look? [Consider this also a general commiseration for those of us looking as to how lonely the process can be.]

[Nick]

I’ll say for ANR centric relationships, Abfheaven is best among all. I have been looking for long time. It’s not easy and needs plenty of patience.
Some have been lucky to find their partner here.
Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Good luck to you too!

[Kate]

For me – only on here. Many people look for a hookup on this site, so it can be challenging, but it doesn’t make me lonely, I just am being selective. I will patiently wait for my person that respects me and doesn’t start conversations about sex or my boobs, just because it is an ANR website.
I plan to stay patient. It really is not gonna happen overnight to find a lifetime partner.

The issue usually is the location as for many other folks.

Good luck!

[Rob]

I’ve tried a number of sites over the years. Land of Milk and Honey (in its original form) was one of them, as were two others which, I believe, have now been disabled. I did briefly join FetLife, but found there were very few ladies even in the UK who matched what I sought, and none of them were even active at the time.

Overall, I’d agree that this site (ABF Heaven) has proved to be the best. It can be frustrating to not find many like-minded people within your own area, let alone who are still active, but patience is usually rewarded. It was here that I met my first true partner, and we learned and shared a lot together during our relationship.

Try to be patient, keep an open mind, and eventually the right person will appear on your scope.

[Janis]

Commiserating with you. 😥

[Brian]

I met someone on POF. She never heard of ANR but was open to try. We were in a relationship for about six months. As far as the nursing was our relationship was great, we worked together and brought in her milk. The relationship didn’t last due to differences in communication style, lack of common interests among other things. It was the hardest break up I’ve ever been through. I learned that breaking the emotional bond created by nursing is one of the hardest things about ANR if the relationship doesn’t work. That experience hasn’t turned me off of what could potentially be a truly beautiful way for two people to bond and grow closer together. Like most of us that’s why I’m here, looking for that certain someone. At the vary least to be able to talk with likeminded people who get it. I truly believe that good things come to those who wait. Saying that, I get the struggle we all face.

[Anonymous]

I was talking to someone a few years ago on a site called Lush Stories. It was an erotic story site that had forums. I met (online) an author who had written a few stories on nursing. We had a connection but logistically it didn’t work out. I also found a few people in the forums with a common interest. I haven’t been to the site in years but the last time it had changed and looked more like a hook up site unfortunately.

[Dulce de leche]

I would cast a wide net and proceed cautiously. Don’t settle. Obviously this is important to you and many people here. But I also think chemistry is so important and never compromise on that. If you don’t feel the spark, don’t force it.

[Dulce de leche]

Also to add, Reddit has some ANRoersonals subs and I would consider posting there as well.

[Jake]

I’ll give them a closer look! At first glance some of the subreddits seemed a bit more on the horny side of things (which isn’t a bad thing, mind, but I’m after relationships with a bit more substance), but perhaps there’s something worthwhile among them.

I’d love to find a strong ANR community here in London, both online and in real life. Seems those who like ANR in these parts aren’t as forthcoming with their interest, so it’s hard to come across them.

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