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I’ve been ghosted. As much as it frustrates me, I try to see the silver lining. If somebody can’t communicate online, then who knows how a relationship would have worked in real life.
Dear Brian,
I’ve been ghosted countless times on this website. I won’t deny it was frustrating at first, but I got over it. I knew I had done everything I could; I communicated, I reasoned, and I was open and so on. But the other side needed something different.
But we are human beings, with different roots, feelings, attitudes, needs, etc. This is what we have to accept, because if we don’t, why would we expect the other to accept us.
Warm regards,
Jozsef
We should definitely not apply any self-blame, it is not because of any weakness or flaw in the one ghosted. It probably would have happened to whoever was unlucky enough to be in communication with the ghoster. I know that it feels hurtful, but we have to try not to take it personally.
Very nicely said. I whole heartedly agree. Pelsu