For the Ladies, a Different Kind of “Pump Question”

[Vinman]

Every now and then, the question comes up here as to “What is the best pump to get?” It actually came up here pretty recently. I’ve inquired here about this topic myself.

But have a “pump” question that has me scratching my head and I would love to get some input on it from some of our extremely knowledgeable ladies here. I recently began messaging with a lactating mom of two who works from home about the possibility of having a wet nursing relationship with her.

We have agreed on her hourly nursing fee ($200) and a babysitting fee of between $120 and $170 depending on how long we go, since she obviously can’t host. To minimize the babysitting costs, I’ll use my hotel points until they run out rather than have her drive an hour to me.

Then after we get all that settled, she brings up the idea of ME buying an adult breast pump for her use after our nursing sessions. She explains that after she nurses her two year old son, she spends some time pumping, using her “kid version” Mom Cozy pump, she sent me a picture of it. She says I need to get for her an “adult size” breast pump, which I would keep, so that she can pump her breasts after our nursing sessions, which will probably be about 2 or 3 times a month if I decide to go ahead with this.

Quite frankly, I was a bit dumbfounded at the suggestion of me buying her a breast pump, that I would keep, which would be used specifically for our nursing sessions. After I thought about this for a bit, I thought that maybe she has a point. Could the health of her son somehow be compromised by her nursing an adult partner, unless she were to use a different pump after she and I are finished?

There is one other statement she made that really kinda threw me, if true. Here it is, word for word….

“If you should suckle the breast of a wet nursing mother and she doesn’t evacuate the retained milk, the toddler will never suck such a breast any more and not with the toddler breast should be used”

I think I detect a slight grammatical hiccup there right at the end, but her overall point is clear.

Is she right? Should I just buy the damn pump and be happy as all hell that I have found a woman who is bursting with milk and will take my wet nursing virginity…..finally! 🤗

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