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I think some are missing the point. This whole post originated because 1 or more members posted pic/video to a public space that was not appropriate for a public space and Michael did act on it and correct the issue.
Time and place, comes to mind.
If the pic/video wasn’t and issue then Michael wouldn’t have acted on it, and maybe that should be paid more attention to rather than dragging people that ask asking for all of our members, but especially the men on this site to be respectful.
If you individually don’t think it is disrespectful then have the conversation privately- a spce thatvis safe from other judgements and or feelings.
There is a time and place…Kelly, people are taking offence to one female member live streaming herself pumping in a group chat. They feel it lowers the tone and sets an expectation that many other members are not happy with. I remain neutral, just explaining as you seem to have missed the point, which I had done as well, as I don’t join in group chats and was unaware until someone told me what had happened in a private message, so you’re not the only one lol. Just thought I would fill you in as it seems to have passed you by in the same way as it did me.
@bibreasts and @rachyj no this post was by Corey asking the guys to be respectful. And then a bunch of ladies came on and hijacked it to their agenda. It is not about that incident or at least it wasn’t until your last two posts where you turned it into that. That matter is done. It’s been put to rest. Stop bringing it up and trying to continue it. Because that’s exactly what you are doing. And to try and backpedal prior conversation above and turn it into something it wasn’t as pure and simply gaslighting. The Content of the conversation is there for everyone to see, and it very clearly states, in the words of those who wrote it there, issue with photographs of breasts and lactating breasts on this site.
I can’t even believe this stuff. Mind blown.
I can’t speak for anyone else but I can assure you that I was not trying to gaslight anyone or bring up anything from the past. I genuinely thought you didn’t know what people were referring to so I thought I was filling you in. Apologies for the misunderstanding. I agree this is not what the post is getting at, but I would say it was taken in another direction early on in the comments. I can’t speak for anyone else’s reason for doing that but I want to set the record straight for my own part and say I was definitely not trying to bring up anything controversial.
I’m going to close comments on this forum topic since it has become simply an argument about the website, the chatroom, and my running of this site.
Here’s the current situation:
– when it became apparent to me in the last week that the chatroom was rather too full of breast pictures then I decided – as a compromise – on the following: Titty Tuesday can be a free for all, as it always was on ABFheaven. Post whatever you like. But on all other days limit your booby pics to one a day, maximum. That should help tone things down.
– the “incident” with live pumping in video chat was a totally one-off thing. The following day, when I heard about it, I switched video chat off again. I advised the person involved that it wasn’t a good idea, it presented the site in a rather distasteful manner. Guys crowding round to watch. Not good. They agreed, it won’t happen again. Done.
– lots of effort goes on behind the scenes on this site to try to keep it safe for women to use. Insofar as any site can be considered “safe” given that you are dealing with strangers on the internet. But many hours are required each week to maintain this. It’s a daily grind, and it’s unpaid.
In light of all this, if you still think that ABFheaven is not a safe place, that it needs to get “back on track”, that the tone is all wrong, and so on …well you really should simply leave my website. I’m kinda happy with my own track record and I’m happy with the way things are now. If you are not, then leave.
I won’t be commenting further about these issues.
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