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The problem is that the men who send those type of messages and show that type of behaviour are the ones that ignore profiles and either definitely don’t read forum posts or just use them as pointers for how to be seen as more reasonable before they let their inner selves out.
I absolutely hate having to be so hyper vigilant about safety, but it’s our reality. There are guys on here who are reluctant even to share face pics, so you know who you are meeting and tbh, I want a pic of their face on my phone and maybe with a safe person in case anything happens to me, so they know where to start looking.
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Rapid firing questions! Omg, not a “hello”, “how’s your day”, or anything like a casual conversation. It’s such a turn off for me. I like to get to know someone over time and have it feel natural.
If I wanted to be interviewed I would apply for jobs!
@blueberrykiwi3 I wish there was a way to report voice notes to the Admin. I’ve noticed that some men are sending voice notes so there isn’t any textual evidence.
I’m sure some can say that it’s merely their preference. But I genuinely don’t want to listen to anyone moaning or groaning with every word in attempt to make the conversation sexual. Like relax, this isn’t some kind of fanfiction role play; I’m just trying to have some basic conversation.I’ve noticed a pattern from people who are out of state or out of country. In my experience, these individuals have tried to find a way to make any aspect of conversation erotic or sexual, and it really makes my skin crawl.
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