United Kingdom / Female

[Florence]

Been on this site a while, still looking for the right guy for regular suckling. Only found 1 or 2 guys on here I’ve found an online vibe with so far. So I’m here to try again and I’ll try to be clearer on what I’m looking for.

I do need there to be an element of physical attraction so an up to date photo is essential.
Communication, I cannot stress to you how important this is to me, I have ceased contact with more men over this than any other reason on here. If we are chatting then we engage regularly, and reciprocally.
Location, I am near W London, if you’re Essex way or North England for eg that’s not going to work I’m afraid. My free time is limited and sometimes I have to arrange meets with short notice.

I am on this site for a reason. I do want to meet. The things I am asking for are a bare minimum and for whatever reason this seems to have made meeting a suitable man very difficult.

[Nate]

Hang in there sweetie! Don’t give up. You’ll find him when you least expect it….❤️

[M]

I really like your post Florence! As we all know distance is the biggest bitch when it comes to the ABF/ANR and I always wondered why all the willing ones are away 🤣🤣 well hence I don’t try ones far away neither looking Atm but sending you all the best wishes and I’m sure you’ll land on a best opportunity. Cheers

[Foster Love 💕]

We all know we have challenges bro find the the partners that we are looking for just be perseverant. 🥰😍😊🤗

[Nick]

It takes lots of patience and time to find a right match. There are many factors affecting it, location, distance, schedule etc are few to come over.
Good luck to you and all.

[Peter]

The answer is to look for ‘good enough’ rather than demand perfection. Those in search of the latter will likely be forever disappointed. And who knows?.. with a bit of luck you might be good enough for someone you like too.

[ComeCMe4😘😘😘]

Nowhere in her message she is demanding perfection. She is talking about time. It is a resource. She doesn’t have a lot of it. Please sir, check your bruised ego and insecurities at the door. But if it was an issue of setting a high expectation, wouldn’t you rather a potential partner have a high standard set for you to rise to instead of setting a low bar and her being disappointed with what she receives?

[Florence]

I believe I used the words bare minimum and I chose them specifically. I am aware of my worth and I don’t see why I should have to settle for someone who is not compatible. There is nothing wrong with men who have a differing communication style to what I seek, I just know what works for me and that’s one of the things that is important for me.
I know I am not perfect and I don’t expect perfection.
As for the distance thing, if I message you and say I’m free in an hrs time and we can suckle for 2 hrs. How many men who kindly offer to get a hotel or say they will travel will actually be able to meet with me?

[Peter]

I think what you’re possibly overlooking is that many men on here are “aware of their worth” too. So much so, in fact, that they can’t be bothered to comply with the unreasonable and one-sided stipulations of an otherwise viable abf partner.

[Florence]

I wish you well in your search Peter. It is ok for us both to be looking for different things. I will continue with what works for me and you I’m sure will do the same.

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