Does nursing matter?

[Cuppa Chris]

I got asked this question recently from another on this site.
The question was “I mean does nursing matter to u if u found a good person who wasn’t into it”
My response was that ” Although I do crave the feeling and sensation of suckling if I found a good lady who enjoyed physical touch, cuddles and kisses and I fell for her I could live without”
I’m wondering how others feel about my response. Because the person that asked me. Then told me that they “wished that I wasn’t on this site as my presence is taking away from the intents and purposes of a safe ANR place”
Now I really don’t mind that she feels that’s way. I know that I do want to enjoy an ANR relationship and that it does matter to an extent. But apart from a few experiences over the years. I’ve lived enough years to know that it’s not the be all and end all of the reasons for a relationship. In my opinion. So I ask you this . Should I stay or should I Go. Are my reasons not enough to be here. If the majority think that then I’ll say adios amigos 😁

[Lola]

Chris, don’t you dare go anywhere! 🫶🏻

I actually think your answer says something lovely about your priorities. You desire ANR, but you recognize that a meaningful relationship can offer so much more.

What I find baffling is the suggestion that your perspective somehow makes this community less safe. Since when did having different priorities become a threat to anyone?

There’s a difference between protecting a community and policing who belongs in it. I wish you the best of luck! 🤓

[🌸🌸]

Obviously there is more conversation to the story, but perhaps she was feeling as though you weren’t being genuine about Abf and shopping on here for sex, which I have felt by many men on here. I could never say I have felt unsafe, that’s what blocking is for and having our own personal boundaries behind our keyboards! And! Michael does a great job!

I think there’s nothing wrong with our varied degrees of needing Abf, but perhaps you could clarify that in your profile. Then, there’s no surprises or disappointments by the people you’re talking with? Especially for those that hold it so dear and as a requirement to living life. Good luck!

[Cuppa Chris]

Lola. Thanks I appreciate this reply.
I too was baffled by the ladies response, . I did ask her , what she meant and how was it that I’m making this community feel unsafe. To which there was no reply.
And I thought we were getting along so well, even if there wasn’t much chance of us meeting.
I like many others are enjoying this community. The stories, the banter, the funny quips . Yes I do enjoy seeing the saucy posts. And I occasionally comment. But I am here to see if I can meet up with and form a relationship with someone who does want to enjoy an ANR. Maybe I will, maybe I won’t. Maybe I fall in love with the girl on the Tesco checkout till.I would like her to enjoy this but if I do fall for her and she’s not into it. Il still be happily in love.
Whether that happens or not, I still enjoy being a tiny part of this group.

[Cuppa Chris]

I do agree with you Janet.
As far as the conversation had gone which was going on for about a week. Not 1 word of reference to anything,other than what I would say to my grandma. Nothing about boobs breasts sex etc . I wasn’t even asking for anything other than conversation. (Maybe that’s the reason) .
Alas I do hope she finds what she has been searching for a.

[Cuppa Chris]

In Saying that “those that hold it as a requirement to living life.” For those, is it a deal breaker .
For me it’s not.

[Sparkling 💎]

Well you deserve to be here as much as any other person 💕. Just because you can live without something doesn’t mean you won’t treasure it if you do get it. Just like I can live without winning the lottery but if I win it I will treasure it.

Sorry that was a bad joke! Let me try and find a better example……nada for now.. 🙂

I have to say that many people block me and me them for various reasons that we don’t even know. All we can do is bring our light into the universe .the light that is uniquely ours to whatever we do.

You are a wonderful person and I do enjoy our interactions and your comments in spicy. So please stay 😘

[B♾️b Willis]

To each their own and only they can decide the answer to your question. I went down that road once and I will never again have a relationship that does not include ANR. At the time I made the wrong decision I was perhaps blinded by love and, most importantly, I did not realize how deep and strong my desire and or need for ANR was.

[David]

Matter is an individual judgment.

[Cuppa Chris]

Thanks you all for your responses.

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