Discussion: What do you LIKE to read in a first contact message?

[JuicyJugs]

This is a great topic for discussion. I agree with some of the other responses in that I would like to get a glimpse of someone’s personality in the message, creativity is appreciated, and I would like it to be evident that they have read my profile. Before responding, I always take a look at the persons profile. If there are no pictures or little effort in the bio to display who the person is, I do not respond. I have taken the time to fill out my profile and have shared some photos, so at minimum I desire the same.

It seems to me the common theme here is the desire to make an authentic personal connection before engaging in such an intimate act.

[ANRTN]

I’m a very direct person lol, so I like. Basic stats , experience, what they are looking for
And a genuine question about myself.
I don’t have any media posted, that can be given at my discretion .
I REALLLY like when the message comes with some kind of SFW or mildly NSFW pic, bc whether people want to admit it or not, attraction plays a part of who I chose to engage with.
Anyone from long distance doesn’t even get a response bc I’m not here to chit chat, I I’m here to find a partner locally

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