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IMHO, the advent of the Playboy generation with it making public the variation in women’s breast and nipple sizes, shapes and colorations ruined the mystery. Men began comparing those glossy photos with what they had at home and more often than not, left feeling disappointed. When I was in HS, I only remember one or two girls in my class having noticeable breasts. Today it seems to be the exception to be small-breasted. SNL skit of “two wild and crazy guys” and their pursuit of “big American breasts” was funny because it was a true descriptive of a large segment of American men.
I remember a little boy of 5 getting a coloring book for his birthday with the circus as its theme. Though only 5, I knew he needed to hide behind his bed when coloring the buxom trapeze artist. As my profile cover image depicts,it starts early.
I don’t know if I have an ideal. Things I do like are sensitive nipples. One of my massage clients who liked me sucking her nipples told me that she preferred nipple orgasms to vaginal orgasms. I once read in a AMJ article that only 1% of women can achieve true orgasms vis nipple stimulation. I wonder what the average is among women who desire ABF.
I do like areola. As to size of breasts, I really don’t care as long as they have some amount of firmness. As a masseur I saw young ladies as young as 18-20 having pancakes, flat tires. I also had the pleasure of women in their 50’s with amazingly firm, youthful breasts.
So what are your preferences?
My preference is not to be objectified…
Hence my opening statement about the Playboy generation. But that said, we all have preferences. Yes, it can be negatively viewed but can also be the simple fact that we all are drawn to one thing over another. When a man purchases a car or a woman a pair of shoes, the minds eye determines the choice. Women may to a different degree than men do when choosing which man may or may not suckle their breasts, however, women do objectify men. I can, by experience, testify to that.
But I understand your objection and from that vantage totally agree.
“With the unfastening of each button, a woman loses a bit of her mystery.”
Exactly, this post makes me feel like a lot of the messages we women get, some kind of body part with requirements on size, volume and output?
Are you trying to tell me that women don’t buy cars and men don’t buy shoes?
There’s a difference between having a preference, and shaming what is not your preference. For example, you could have just stopped at the fact you have a preference for sensitive nipples, but you had to refer to small breasts as pancakes…
I have a preference for younger men, but I don’t refer to older men as grandpa’s. Your choice of words reveals your attitude.
I dont think you meant offense, because of your opening statement and insight into pornography ruining a lot of things.
You just have to remember that women read the forums too and we get inundated with entitled boyd and men often, so it’s easy to feel de valued.Size, shape, color does not matter, as long as the lady (and I use the word, LADY) is enjoying me suckling.
The playboy generation is one way to categorize y’all.
“you had to refer to small breasts as pancakes…”. Perhaps you should go back and read what wrote. I get it. You were insensed at the topic of the thread as you perceived it. But personally, though big breasts are visually stimulating, I actually prefer smaller breasts.
My comment was not about size at all. It was that age doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with firmness.
I recently was reading one of those books where you read a paragraph, put down the book, then like a cow, have to “chew the cud.” One of the statements therein was: being sexual creatures, we all have feelings of incompleteness while on a quest for wholeness.”
Life is messy. Human interaction is messy. Definition is sought after. Everybody’s “wrongness” collides with everyone else’s “wrongness.” Wrongness usually, at some point, realized or not, involve laws. And laws can be either aprodicate or caustic. Caustic is “if you do this, then I will do that.”
I have found that people do not realize how much they reveal of what presuppositions they hold as the grid by which they filter everything by reacting this way or that, especially verbally. We all have our own presuppositional grids. I don’t think I’m going out on a limb here to express the fact that most people not only don’t know what their presuppositional base is but rarely if ever investigate them to see if they need to be altered in anyway. And because of that most presuppositions are caught the same way we catch a childhood illness- from our families and friends. Childhood illness because most of our presuppositions are caught in our early developing years. If you grow up in a broken home your presuppositions will often be quite different from those who grew up in a loving husband/wife parental homestead.
I confess, I now see how women can react negatively. That was part of my point when referring to how pornography has changed the landscape of male/female interactions. It ruins it to be quite frank. Men are visual creatures. If women don’t recognize that and allow for that then you miss out on a fraction of intimacy with men. Likewise men must recognize how women are much more vocal and interactionary and allow for it. I just watched a funny short where a man comes home from work and asks his wife what was she preparing for dinner that night. To which the wife replies with a long explanation including how bad traffic was trying to get to store that had chicken on sale so she got diverted and though she’d go to another store with the thought of preparing something different and when she got there found out they were all sold out of it that in frustration she stopped at the fried chicken place which was three times more expensive than if she had been able to buy a chicken at the grocery store.
All the husband wanted to know was what was on the menu. The woman wanted to explain all the details as to why 3 times as expensive fried chicken was on the table when they were trying desperately be frugal in their expenditures.
LOL. All that to say, lighten up. Learn to accept situations for what they are. Also, IMHO, it is better to know what the other party is looking for and quite probably requires, prior to meeting and experiencing a disappointed look that can’t be brushed off the face.
From my brief search through profiles here most of us are mid to late life. i.e. adults who should by now have some measure of maturity. I do certainly apologize to those who were offended by the topic and made to feel objectivized. A good apology has 3 parts to it.
1) I’m sorry.
2) It was my fault.
3) What can I do to right the situation?Personally # 1 and #3 are easy for me to say but #2 I sometimes have difficulty with.
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Do you realize that by posting that meme you were doing exactly what you were presuming to be protesting against? You were being a segregationist!
I find it interesting how some men react on sites where there is dating or some sort of relationship being shopped after. It’s what I call the “Charley the Tuna” pretense.
JJ:
Queso = Spanish for cheese.
K,so = Southern for, “Ok, so here’s the plan and y’all are probably not gonna like it.”
LOL
My ideal type is defo not a 64 y/o man who continues to get old but never mature. Like be fucking forreal. “Like pancakes” but then you guys complain about height or penis size if anyone calls you out on it. You want “youthful breasts” when there isn’t a drop of youth left in you yourself. Sounds like if the age of consent was below 18 you’d go for it.
Women lose and gain weight and breast firmness changes- because of beauty standards that are pushed onto women by the patriarchy. Kinda how a lot of men will love a fat woman in private but not date her in public.
Imagine someone letting you touch and see their body and this is the shit you’re thinking, you aren’t mature or respectful enough to have access to anyone’s body until you learn body neutrality and learn to respect the human being that is trusting you with an intimate moment.
you are literally in an ANR/ABF site and can’t even once put your tiny pea sized brain to use to think that suckling sessions/inducing (engorging and emptying the breast) will eventually lead to loss in firmness. Is that when you decide throw the woman away? You still see women as a commodity instead of a FUCKING HUMAN BEING?
Are your testicles still firm? You got a head full of hair? What about your skin? Are you “vIsuAlLy StiMulAtInG”? Just be forreal. The grim reaper is deadass waiting out your door and you are worried about youthful breasts when you should be thinking about if you have any left.
As a queer woman, I love all breasts as that a person has trusted and allowed me to see and touch.
To all the breasted humans out there, live your best life and remember you are gorgeous and deserving of respect and love. Because more than half the time, these uglies like the guy that just posted, are still desperate to continue going through with something that “doesn’t fit their preference” and not consider how disrespectful it is. Cut them off and move on!
I like roadsters, V8 or V12 yumm! Convertible? Oh, I can do that. Red or black color. Matte finish, you say? Sure, why not? Vrrrrroooom!
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