Breast Pic Inappropriate Behavior

[Bobbi]

This is a breast centered site obviously but what really bothers me is eventually the people you chat with ask for a titty pic I myself have a cleveage pic and it never fails that someone will ask to see the heavy hangers and i get that but that request from someone you are chatting with and seem to be sincere is a red flag for me I guess because I was looking for a serious life partner. Another question that gets me is when someone asks when was your last nursing session? That really is like wet sand in my underwear but I shouldn’t be too surprised because on this site I have heard it all.

[Sparkie]

Hi Lola,

Definitely a conversation is needed because this is the basis of women and men being visible, comfortable, confident and secure on any platform including this one.

I don’t have all of the answers and thats where all of the men and women on this site come in to the picture.

1. We first need to establish/understand what spicy chat is and how far can it go..as I understand it, it was set up to share pics..

2. Even before we do that I want to understand why people behave this way.. what is the benefit they are getting from this kind of behavior?

If they are here to put themselves forward in the right light this definitely is not doing that..

3. As mature adults, we should always think about what any behavior of ours says about us as a person and how we treat others should be how we want others to treat us, with respect first and foremost.

4. As Paul said a human body is beautiful and I wound add sacred no matter whose it is and how it looks like.

So again we are unique and different because of our differences and thats a wonderful thing. Don’t hurt anyone by putting them down using words.

5. As humans we can do so much good for ourselves and others rather than this kind of inappropriate behavior.

Please do chime in with thoughts to make the environment better for everyone.

Thank you once again, it feels great to finally have this kind of productive conversation about this matter rather than just feeling like we can’t do anything as it makes others uncomfortable to discuss this openly. 💕🤗❤️

[Bill]

I am sorry you ladies have had to deal with these comments. I hope that I have never crossed the line and said something that made you uncomfortable. This post reminded me of something a lady asked me in a DM. She wanted to post a pic in spicy chat and she asked me if I thought less of women who did. Based on what she saw in comments, she felt that women were sometimes looked down upon for posting. I told her to do what she felt comfortable with and ignore the people who don’t matter.

[Marty]

Yeah, some guys just don’t grow up. I think it’s definitely a loss to the site if women hesitate to post. Don’t post anything if a guy asks, you should want to do it by your own volition. That person you desire should never make you feel unsure, I think these things should come naturally. On another note I think if you’re having a good exchange you would want to know if this person is attracted to you physically as well as mentally. When we meet people in public we don’t close our eyes and talk to them and eventually open them. Seeing people or a possible future partner first has been part of human evolution for 300,000 years (ChatGPT I didn’t know that at the top of my head but you know what I mean). And also this is quite a niche fetish/lifestyle so I understand your sense of urgency to exchange. But a gentleman or man who knows himself will not pressure you to do anything you’re not comfortable with. So if he’s pestering you, I’m sorry but you gotta close the door. Real love comes willingly.

[Sparkie]

Hi Bill,

As we get to know the person I think it’s easier to share a picture and know the intent behind a comment. Thats been my experience at least.

Regarding thinking less of the person when they show a picture of themselves thats indeed a true fear women can have because throughout the ages woman who show their bodies have been called various names and somehow they do stick in our heads no matter how liberally we are raised.

Unfortunately shame has been drilled into women showing their bodies unless we do something to counteract this there will be an iota of it along with a fear and hesitation from past experiences.

One way we maybe able to counteract this maybe that every time a spicy pic is posted.. confetti is released to celebrate the moment ..:-) 🎉🥳🎊

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