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@Sam from Texas, perfectly put and thank you for accepting and understanding what the women in this post are quite clearly stating
@ Sam from the UK, you’re completely ignoring what the women on this post have stated they want and instead you’re TELLING us what we actually mean.
This is beyond mansplaining, this is a man that doesn’t care what a woman thinks and won’t take no for an answer. These are unsafe men. Women aren’t interested in those types of men at all.
I suspect that’s where all your anger comes from. Work on yourself, do better and you might attract finally attract a woman.
*and you might finally attract a woman
Sorry you feel that way, TJR. It feels like a bit of an extreme reaction to my response though if you don’t mind me saying so.
I think you might be in danger of becoming “whipped up” by some of the more sensationalist reactions. Just to point out the obvious, that’s what they’re designed to do. I’m not “unsafe” and Maria is clearly not in any actual “danger”.
A sense of perspective is called for.
Hello. I’ve only just joined and it seems a little hypocritical of me but it’s always nice to see a face to match the person you are having a conversation with but on the flip side of that, I don’t want to feel pressure for sharing my face photos with everyone I chat with as I’d rather get to know someone for a few days first to make sure they are actually interested. I believe I would have less issues with showing my boobs and my body than my face (hence my profile picture) as it gives me a little security in a funny way. Ultimately, I don’t really care too much what people have as their profile photos. I love to chat and hope I get to converse with lots of wonderful and interesting people. I think the ‘physical attraction’ comes after the initial start of the conversation once you feel secure enough to share.
@sam, so far it’s unanimous. And I don’t think you’re dealing with shy women here. If we want to see a “cock or two”, most of us have a library full of those pictures. Or we’ll go to a hookup site. Keep in mind this is a nursing site. We’re not here for hot bodies and cocks. You’re here for breasts.
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That last part was spot on Sam. Some of the guys do just agree with the women just to get brown nose points.
Man I got a nice face and a nice body. Sometimes showing off your face is an unfair advantage because what if you don’t look good in pictures? What if you look better in person…
A picture of someone is not the same as seeing them in person.If you got a nice face post it, if you got a nice body post it.
I get more PMs now that it’s my body.
Appreciating a pfp is crazy work if they really want to know what you look like they’ll ask, and if they really like you for you , it wouldn’t matter
To each their own
Also my response was aimed at the last message of the first page , didn’t realize this was 3 pages long lol
This topic was derailed quickly 😂
I was only asking if people liked body pics in profiles. I was not asking about unsolicited body or cock pics in private messages.
I think physical attraction does play a part, despite what some people say. That doesn’t make myself, or anyone else who shares that view, shallow. It’s not a defining factor but it’s certainly something that creates initial attraction to someone’s profile.
I very much doubt you are all reading through every single profile and making judgement purely on their profile content, so a profile pic does help.
@diam, I do read through every profile. I do not respond to someone until I read their profile. I do not send an initial message unless I’ve read their profile. This isn’t like online dating where a guy swipes right on every profile and waits to see who he matches with.
@New in nj I don’t think you can understand what “unanimous” means so that does make a sensible exchange with you difficult, unfortunately. Knowing that alone means I shan’t be arguing the point with you.
In any event, (most) women posting the response “face pic” doesn’t falsify my original point. So that original point stands. Personally it doesn’t matter to me what people prefer, I was simply saying the response will be self-selecting in favour of “face pics”. For the reasons given.
@ The Milk Lad – Yup. My point really wasn’t a controversial statement. There will be women who like seeing body pics-and they’ll be less likely to say so here. You can expect to see the response “face pic” much more, but just interpret the results of the post knowing that it won’t reflect the true ratio.
Ultimately, tailor your profile in whatever way you feel works to your best advantage. Body pic or face pic. Or neither. Thats all that actually matters.
As you rightly identify-many men are keen to signal they agree with the women to get “brown nose points”. And women signal to one another in much the same way with the “face pic” response. Everybody understands this of course but just pretends not to for their own reasons. Hence why the thread became so silly at various points with nonsense and overreaction.
@ Dia – I think that summary is far closer to the reality of things. A perfectly reasonable take and a better “overview” of things. That’s all I was really getting at when I said you should make an adjustment for the (skewed) response you could expect to get.
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