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In dating and in life and including ABF/ANR and all the above it’s come to this In my opinion.
Men go for what’s available.
Women go for what they want.
Correct me if I’m wrong🤷🏾♂️
We all have our standards & preferences but again I might be wrong.For some individuals, perhaps, but I believe your opinion is way too generalized and simple. The real world is a lot more complex.
Personally, I will try most anything once, and then decide if it’s for me or not.
Like the sports axiom goes, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
I think that in general, this is true. However, when I know a guy is casting out a large net, it’s a turnoff for me, personally.
Jay, I won’t correct you as it’s not my place, but I will disagree. What you say is true and so is the opposite. There are many men who only go for what we want and women who go for what’s available. Not just here but everywhere. Before anyone blows a fuse I’m NOT saying all woman or men.
I go for what I want, NOT what’s merely available. I try to only seek women I seem compatible with and have traits I like, and also hit it off with once we communicate. I recently ended a communication with a woman very close to me and attractive because we just weren’t communicating.
But I try to end things nicely and on a positive note if at all possible, not just ghost someone or block them without some final message or communication, that’s just rude. And causes people to start paying the rudeness forward. And we need a lot less of that.I disagree…
I would say posting this will turn women off you. Who would want to meet someone who thinks they’re just settling for them because they have few options?
@nickchrome Your not wrong and I don’t disagree with your either, I may have said that statement from a small minded perspective, some men do go for what they want and some women do go for what’s available in the end, it’s about good communication and compatibility, hardest pill to swallow is that if he/she ain’t your type that’s okay. We move on and hope for the best.
in my opinion, with sites such as these women may have more of the leverage here considering it’s more dominated by men, if you are what she wants and with the right approach she will make herself available to if you if your her type right? We as guy and girls seek each other who of our type and preference and wanna know if we are compatible , therefore one of us makes the first move and hopes for the best.
Again I might be wrong so correct if need be because it’s just an opinion if you read my first post not be rude by the way.Jay, just wanted to say I don’t think you came at it from a small minded perspective at all. And hope I didn’t seem to imply that. You asked a question, and welcomed input, small minded people don’t do that.
And yes it’s a hard pill to swallow when they’re not your type. Harde when you’re not theirs!The world’s your oyster mate. You’ll find someone who is into you as much as you are to them one day.
Tough to say, Jay. I think with us, guys, it can really feel this way sometimes but other times, it’s best to not look too hard into these things. Women and men are very different creatures psychologically and this reflects in actions, behaviors, and methods to the madness. Relationships will come and unfortunately go sometimes and I know for me and several others, it’s been when least expected or imagined to work.
Standards are important but nobody out there will be a perfect 10/10 for us. This doesn’t mean there aren’t always alternatives and ways to work around what’s imperfect.
I agree with Nick here, it goes all ways on here as in life.
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