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So I have been so privileged in the past month or so to hear from many men and women on this site about what’s going on in their daily lives, their thoughts at a particular moment in time, likes, work etc that I wanted to write about this in a post on the forum.
This is because I often marvel in those moments of connectedness about how we both happen to be here at this particular moment in time on abf heaven, talking with each other. What are the chances that both of our lives should have connected in this way on a small planet or asteroid or comet on the internet called abf heaven ?!!! If you think about it, it’s astounding, amazing and a thing to treasure. 💕🩷🌺
Daily we are being invited into the lives and hearts of our fellow human beings.. how cool is that?!!!
These are precious moments I will always treasure like
Paul with his pillows trimming the rose bushes and coming out fighting like a cat got to him..NOC traveling all over the world and being mysterious about his whereabouts in the chat room.
John being so friendly to each and everyone that you can’t help loving him and sending him kisses 😘😘😘..
If you think about it it’s a huge gift to be part of their every day lives and I treasure these moments, giggle or smile when I remember them in the quiet moments like this morning on a Friday in Fall of 2026. 🤗🥰🌷
It’s a great moment in time to be alive and well and writing this….
I feel so connected when I talk to a person and we both share our stories. It’s like a glimpse into their world, another place and time. They take me there and we touch each others hearts with our stories and life experiences, people who have influenced them, love and loss that they have experienced so far.. the whole human experience.
It stays with me after we finish chatting or talking and whenever I think of them I feel myself being transported to that felt connection to that feeling I had when I was speaking to them that feeling of bliss when they talked about being introduced to nursing, that comfort and the softness of those wonderful moments that have brought them seeking here. It takes me there because I know the feeling of being nursed on, the rapture and I can exactly connect with them at that moment by feeling the same sensations that they are reliving with me.
Please share your thoughts and how someone special made you feel and how it lingered in your memory making you smile and giggle…and I will be giggling along with you in that connected moment. 💕😘🌺 Thank you!
Lots of people I enjoy sharing space with here. I won’t attempt to single them out in fear of inadvertently omitting others.
My first reply post and it’s cryptic… oh well soldier on I guess .. 🤷♀️
Sparkling, I love the vibe you bring to the community…. thank you..
Most of my connections are similar to what I experience on activity sites like Meetup groups; close friends, excellent conversation, trust and comfortable interaction, and focus on a common goal!!
I rarely run into a partner that invokes a more intimate relationship (girlfriend,crush, significant other) but it does happen!! Unfortunately my crush had another love interest and has moved across country to be part of his family…no regrets though because every experience makes us grow and adds to our diverse life!
Not all connections end like a fairy tale but it still makes me smile…. melancholy!!Hi Fetzvoy12
☺️☺️☺️. Ty 🤗 So true what you said! 💕 Some connections have just the right energy that resonates with you and they become a part of you so you carry them in your heart and dreams always like the lullaby or the favorite place you go to in your dreams and blissful moments. For me most times that happiness or connection they brought to our conversation stays whenever I think of them like a favorite blanket or a soft touch that gives me solace/bliss. Life tends to come and spoil those tender memories sometimes but I try to hang on to the best and keep moving forward. 🩷💕🥰
I think the best thing about abfheaven is the very noticeable sense of community and connection. That is all down to the great people we have here, and has nothing at all to do with me. It is what sets abfheaven apart from other sites.
I think of it as an antenna tuning into the frequency that is at the same vibration as its set to .. like a radio and then in that instance you have beautiful music filling the air. So we probably can all tune in to any frequency or some people are vibrating similarly and can always connect back in a sec.. no matter how much time has passed like child hood friends.
It could also be the whole physics theory that says 2 particles that are connected will always be connected no matter where in space/time they are.. I don’t know the answer tbh just thoughts 🤗🥰💕
Perhaps it is because I come from the era of penpals, pen and ink, paper, envelopes, stamps and waiting, waiting, waiting for a postal reply. I’ve had penpals since summer camp in grade school. She was my nurse at the camp because I had just gotten out of the hospital and because my grandma worked in the kitchen, I was allowed to sleep in the old log cabin where she, the nurse and other cooks slept.
For two years I wrote to the daughter of me mum’s penpal whom she had known in England before the war. How different life would have been for me if I hadn’t met the love of my life a week before the family drove up to Canada to spend a week with me mum’s friend and her family. But because of that, I didn’t “play” my penpal gf. It wasn’t until the morning of the day we were headed back home that she walked me down the lane and pulled me behind some bushes and kissed me and told me I had been the fool. Sadly I found out later that she had died of cancer a few years later. And as for the love of my life? I dropped out of college to earn enough money to marry her only to get drafted and for her to marry someone else before I returned home. Some of us die in the military yet appear alive when we return.
“People needing other people are the luckiest people in the world” so the song lyric went. Sometimes I envy those who don’t need other people.
Yes I remember the days of letters and Pen Pals, I had one in Italy and one in Mauritius (his letters I had to hide from my dad because they did seem a little romantic).
I am so sorry about the loss of the ladies you mentioned in your post. It is very touching that you still remember them so fondly.. there are so many untrodden paths and we can look back sometimes wonder where a certain turn would have taken us if we had taken it. What if we had done something else etc.
But one thing I heard a very wise GURU say “this moment is as it is because the whole universe is as is. If we struggle against this moment we are struggling against the entire universe !” So basically saying we need to accept what is now..to open up the creative genius of the universe to create what we want to see on the future. Your story made me remember these things that helped me in my life to come to terms with “what is” when I struggled with a certain situation in my life. Thank you so much for posting again. I really love hearing your insight. 🥰💕
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