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Hey everyone I’m relatively new to the site and I have wondered how successful people have been getting to know others and finding what they are looking for.
Very successful if you just be you, dont push their boundaries and wait it out.
You have time on yourside so dont panic.. this can take years so get on with life and dont stop yourself meeting women on other Ways
Here in America I have none locally and when I did chat with someone here. They automatically jumó to sex or they act like it’s a job interview and use those types of questioning so a lot of blocking. Please don’t do that
Not so much as a peep. Grateful site is free.
The one word mantra to use in this process of finding an ANR partner is patience. Tons of it. Also, in your search, don’t put all your eggs in one basket. This is a fabulous site for meeting high quality people interested in ANR, but like any dating site, there is a finite number of people and eventually you will cycle through most of them and then be dependent on new people joining.
Try places like the three Adult Nursing personals sections on Reddit, which is actually my best source of all. Also try a free Personal ad on Dreams of Milk. Those are updated every 3 or 4 weeks. A recent find for me has been ANR Corner on Facebook, through which I’ve actually met two new suckling partners this year.
Get yourself out there as widely as possible. Have the utmost patience in the course of your search and you will eventually succeed in finding a partner.
Vinman
Perform a search. Watch chat. Read their profiles. That is very important. It can save you from wasting time or their time in your search.
I’ve made quite a few friends on here and have been lucky enough to meet a few of them.
As Vinman says have patience. Good luck and have fun.Had a couple of meets. Don’t get too fixated on ABF/ANR. There is more to life than it tbh. If you meet someone on here then great, otherwise it’s no big deal.
Too many fall into the trap thinking this is the be-all-end-all of things.
My best advice is know what you want as best as you possibly can.
Do you:
– only want a ANF situation with no emotional connections?
– A LTR that has ANR, but is a serious relationship in every way?
– A LTR with a person just for ABF and nothing else?
Etc.
The better you can determine what you actually want, the better things will be because you aren’t just shooting off messages and friend requests with no idea what you are looking for.
Appreciate your post, Vinman. I know Reddit really well, so maybe I’ll look for those three groups and post there.
There is actually a 4th ANR group on Reddit where you can post a personal ad, r/BreastPlayPersonals, which has 12,013 members, 25 of which were online as of 10:15pm tonight.
The other three Reddit groups with personal ads are:
r/adultnursing – 34,411 members, 35 online
r/AdultNursingPersonals – 8,623 members, 38 online
r/AdultNursingANR – 7,866 members, 10 online
There is also a group called r/AdultBreastfeeding, which is described as “A supporting and caring community devoted to the topics of Adult Nursing Relationships and Induced Lactation”
This group of 42,890 does NOT allow personal ads or solicitation. But it has quite a few postings on lactation, including one today entitled “Inducing kills my sex drive. What’s next?”
Vinman
I agree with everything above.
I would add to be open minded, use common sense, be patient, stay persistent, be honest and be thoughtful.
I’ve had a lot of good fortune from the site, also a couple of bad eggs naturally. But that’s par for the course.
Good luck in your search ❤️
I got off to a great start and found an amazing partner on my first day on the site last year. He already had experience and a perfect latch and suckling technique. He put me at ease straightaway and we shared fun, intimacy, affection and a meaningful connection that nothing could have prepared me for. But after about 5 months, his is situation changed and he’s now living in another country. I still miss him and everything we shared but I’m so glad to have had that life changing experience. I’ve me 4 guys since him and still open to meeting others, but for one reason or another haven’t clicked or been compatible with any I’ve met since I stopped seeing my partner. I think you just have to take it as it comes really, don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and make the most of any opportunities you do get. If you find something special, don’t take it for granted because it’s extremely rare to find a partner with chemistry, friendship or more, who wants the same thing that you want at the same time. Knowing that’s possible stops me from giving up completely, but the chances of finding something as special as that more than once seems unlikely. Good luck x
So,@beardabflover 6 months and some change later, what advice or experiences would you be giving to a newbie to ABF joining this site today?
I have been lucky enough to have met a couple of lovely women from this site. I met my ANR partner on here and we have happily been in a relationship for 4 years. We haven’t managed to induce yet due to a couple of issues but enjoy the closeness and bonding ANR brings.
@maugan-ra It always says a lot about members that have found their significant other, whether here or via other avenues, yet still participate here. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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