Age Issues

[Anonymous]

I am now 59. I honestly think that people are too focused on sex as orgasms, rather than sex as bodily feelings that intertwine with emotions. So that is why breast oriented sexuality is not common among many young people. The other thing is that to a new mother breastfeeding is for “the baby” So if a man wants it, they are considered infantile or incestual. I think it takes a long time before those thoughts are gone. Thus older women consider it. Also as people age they want to be more feminine or more male, and breastfeeding is very feminine. And as men age and don’t have consistent erections, men back off of intimacy thus leading their partners to want intimate relationship. Thus the number of women in there 40s and 50s wanting ANR. And finally, the practicality of time – it takes a huge amount of time to induce and to keep up production it takes continual activity. Who has that time? Retired people and the wealthy.
If I were your age, I would try to date women who are into breast play and just make it a big part of your sex play.
I hope I haven’t offended anyone, but I have become sad.

[Savage13]

Hey @darksun22, same age as you here with a little bit of experience. It’s a tough pill to swallow but I suggest you shelf this desire for a while. I’m in the same position now.

At 18, I got lucky and had my first dry ANR with my girlfriend at the time. I simply told her my desire and by the grace of god, she was into it. We split for multiple reasons but I have not suckled again since 20. I’ve looked far and wide across multiple forums, websites, dating apps, etc. Nothing really panned out for me.

I’m now looking for a wet nurse simply because I’ve never been able to try it from the source and am dying to know what it’s like but that is a challenge in itself too and they are not cheap.

Things change a lot when you approach 30 or older. You’re running into more women who are more open-minded who have had multiple types of experiences and/or become moms and enjoy their ability to lactate and then you might meet someone who likes this “kink” (saying it that way as there’s not a better word to classify this desire as). Call it what it is, the majority of women like their men older than them and this is a trend that is only growing. The other alternative is you meet someone and you both have kids and you might land a lucky star to where she’s down to have you suckle whenever the baby isn’t hungry.

Focus on what you can enjoy at 22 that you can’t when you’re older. Right now, I’m focused on just being an absolute bedroom animal bringing all types of women over for the night as frequently as I can. Try (and fail) at a lot of things in and out of the bedroom just to find what the hell you like. I’m currently in a phase of trying to bull for open/poly/cuckold couples. Just as an example of how wild you can get. I’m just throwing darts at a wall for you to think about here.

Cause you will reach an age where that type of wild adventure should slow down whether for better or worse whether it be a marriage, career priorities, or raising kids.

I hope this helps.

[Anonymous]

This advice right here. I would also suggest Fetlife and Reddit. There’s quite a large ANR presence on both sites. The former I’ve met several women there that enjoy breast/nipple play.

[Bazz. 🇬🇧]

Hi Adam, Ive read through the posts above and you have my sympathies. I’m now 64 and I have the same issue but in reverse in that I think that I’m now considered much too old. Ive been into sucking and breast play, on and off for way over 30 years now and I’m still as enthusiastic about it now as I was when first attempted a fumbling suckle and once tried then the need never goes away, irrespective of age.
A lot of ladies on this site seem to be in their late 20’s, 30,s 40’s, 50’s and have no interest in someone my age.
Like you I was in my twenties when ABF first piqued my interest but it wasnt until I was in my early thirties I got the opportunity to suckle. I would say don’t give up, there are UK ladies joining the site all the time and I’m sure that eventually there will be some early/mid twenties that would be very interested in getting to know you.
All of that of course depends on factors like location/ travel distance/ availability/actually liking each other etc…but that a whole separate topic. Best wishes and don’t give up, Barry.

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