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I’ve noticed some people on here complaining that they can’t find someone to suckle and it’s a waste of time being on here. I figured I’d give you some of my advice based on both good and disappointing interactions I’ve had lately. Obviously, this is based on my experiences and what I prefer, but if other people have advice they want to share, feel free to comment it below!
Good things/tips:
-honesty
-able to clearly describe what you’re looking for/into
-talking to the *person*
-being able to carry on a conversation
-typing in a way that I can understand what you’re trying to say and proofreading before sending (I know not everyone is great at written English)
-being open to getting to know one another moreNegatives:
-not reading About Me sections (they’re there for a reason, don’t waste both of our time)
-not knowing what you’re looking for (it’s okay if you’re new, but be able to express what you might be interested in)
-talking to someone like they’re just a pair of tits and not a human (I personally am not into being dehumanized)
-stating facts like “your boobs look big” or “they’ll get bigger when your milk comes in” (boring)
-offering to relocate in first 2 minutes (creepy)
-bringing up sex right away (before you even mention how it relates to ABF for you)
-messaging saying “I wish I lived closer” (waste of time and weird)
-being demanding of my time, personal information, etc.Geeze, “Wish I lived closer” is my best pickup line. LOL Seriously, thank you for the advice XLact.
” ) Frank
Very well written and sums it up well. Thanks!
That and guys, please drop the all-too-common, “What got you into ABF?”.
Where are all you getting that from? Is it posted somewhere and you’re all asking it? It’s like you’re all reading the same handout.
It helps to know this isn’t a dating site. ANR/ABF doesn’t ever start de novo from a website. This place is for people who want to *talk* about ABF/ANR. The only people *in* these relationships are already married/partnered.
The only thing more absurd than the behavior on here, is attempting to correct it.
What annoys me is people adding me as a friend without adding a message and a barely filled in profile. If you cant be assed stringing a quick greeting or comment together then move along.
@itry2begood
i have asked this question to many women and they have no problem in answering it. it leads to good conversation
god forbid we find out why we are into this very rare and niche thing!
i think people need to stop pushing their frustrations on others. there is no one size fits all approach. just because something annoys you doesnt mean it annoys everyone else
I agree but also the supply and demand is in favor of the person providing the sucking whether dry or wet versus the suckling partner.
I can understand the frustration of someone trying to get the same position 8 other people are applying for.
I also feel that due to this being a seller’s market there is less scrutiny or room for error because there will easily be a person who is interested in entering an anr but not many people who provide a breast to be suckled.
Being patient, honest, and sincere are all great starting points however it’s hard to hold someone’s attention when they have many at the door lining up.
Since I been on here been open honest and nice to everyone but still received being blocked, or ignored because the path of least resistance is the easiest.
Patience and positivity are what I would preach to those encounter frustration
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