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November 17, 2025 at 4:01 pm #665873
Such a good idea. I’d definitely sport whatever the logo is.
November 17, 2025 at 4:32 pm #665886I found this for the history of the upside-down pineapple as a symbol for swingers.
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8DTx2ag/November 17, 2025 at 4:44 pm #665889So, when I think of ABF, I think logout of course milk, but also nurturing, some would say fertility, for some it’s the erotic.
A short list of fruits and symbols that I think would capture many of these aspects of ABF would be; pomegranate, moon, dates, bees, cherries, strawberries.
I personally advocate for pomegranate for the following reason:
Pomegranate: Represents the “fruit of the womb,” and is often used in art to symbolize fertility, the spirit of life, and the rewards of virtue.
When I looked up fruit representing each of the key terms I associated with ABF, pomegranate was the one fruit to appear every timeNovember 17, 2025 at 6:18 pm #665932A lovely pair of coconuts!
Seriously, they have some sort of milk in them 😉November 17, 2025 at 6:55 pm #665940That’s a good point
November 18, 2025 at 1:48 am #666067How about an image of a condensed milk can? Not a fruit or veggie but it’s something similar
November 18, 2025 at 2:25 am #666071Interesting topic.
There’s also is the consideration of whether to be obvious/humorous or serious/symbolic/vague.
Personally I vacillate between the two.
(Pun intended🍨😂🍨)There’s another option of a semi-neutral symbol.
As in the case of the pineapple, for example.
I suppose it could literally be anything if enough people are agreed upon it and enough people are proactive.Some great ideas here though. Mountain peaks. The symbology of the pomegranate.
Coconuts, being they already contain nature’s milk.What about an interesting collage of sorts?
Involving several seemingly disparate symbolic images?
November 18, 2025 at 3:47 am #666084I was envisioning, like the whole pineapple thing, something simple and everyday that if you don’t know you might not even notice, but IYKYK
November 19, 2025 at 8:29 am #666501Thinking outside the box a bit, maybe a couple of jugs with milk.
November 19, 2025 at 9:47 am #666524I think something like the pomegranate is more inclusive for everyone because not everyone can or wants to commit to lactating..
November 19, 2025 at 2:35 pm #666711I agree, plus it’s common enough that it’s something you can openly display without being completely obvious
November 20, 2025 at 12:06 am #667021On a previous forum post one person suggested a cupcake for this symbol. 🧁
While a pomegranate is good how do you distinguish it from normal use? Make it upside down with the “nipple” up?
The symbol may also apply more to ABF than ANR. In swinging it applies to a desire to participate in swinging. Does that mean in this context it shows a desire to participate in ABF? ANR folk may only use it on a dating profile while seeking a committed relationship.
I could be overthinking it, but that is my 2c.
November 20, 2025 at 3:19 am #667084🍑🍑…I vote for two peaches 😁
November 20, 2025 at 3:30 am #667087The peach was my first thought but I feel like everyone associates it with bottoms
November 25, 2025 at 7:55 am #669222I like the cupcake, but it will be messy upside down.
The peach is great. Its associated with bottoms, indeed.
A melon? But how to show the special meaning?
Why not milk (i know not everyone wants to induce but we need something common, that can be placed in the cart in a special way) -
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