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Do you ever feel on ABF there’s not genuine people on here?
I have been trying to find an ABF partner for over 7 months now and I can definitely say it’s not been easy. I’ve met so many time wasters or people who are like “I wish you were closer”
Honestly if you cannot travel why even message me. It’s written on my bio.
Or you meet someone who interviews you about why you want ABF, what position you want to be in. Like how can I answer those if I’ve never been breastfed before.
I just ask people who nurse people please be genuine to them, read their bios, ask if they can travel or host (if not on their bio) then get to know them. And if your a man pretending to be a women get off this website you fake boob.
Sorry for the rant lovelies.I do feel the same way as you…and yes, I see most of those that I find interesting to be in distant areas. I am not always on here most of the day, usually in the morning and maybe checking for messages in the evening. I just wish that there were more women available in my area…
I think this is the experience that many of us have had, sadly. Is certainly my general experience over twenty-odd years, during my periods of being single. Pursuing an ABF is not an easy path to walk.
I believe this is in part due to how many married people are on here – they just want online attention, dopamine boosts and not an actual relationship. Also, I find that many men on here lack masculine energy. That is very hard for a feminine woman to work with.
7 months is not a long time. Some people have been searching for 10+ years.
Even though the search is challenging and there are a few rotten apples the ability to talk to like minded people is helpful. It’s nice to know that there are others who are going through the same things, and having similar experiences.
I agree with OP – a filter for the 3rd gender would be appreciated.
There are only two genders, male or female. It is the same throughout natural history with every living creature. Humans are no different.
Outside of established long term members I’ve found most members I’ve chatted with, which is women, are driven by a fantasy, a romantic escapism. Often they turn out to be married, XXX, or in a phase of their life that gives them the time to invest in being present on ABFH but this isn’t sustainable, they delete their account or go AWOL.
Fortunately there are exceptions to the these examples 😃
Gosh, I am so tired of the time wasters! I make it very clear in my profile too. They aren’t ready to travel and they just want endless pictures or they ask about my sexual preferences when I made it clear I am not ready for sex with a random person, even if I am more open to friendly/casual bfing. A lot of times they don’t show their own face either.
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