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Good grief, you’ve played half the cast of Old MacDonald’s farm! Now I’m curious, because you’ve experienced this from several different angles. Which role did you enjoy most, and what made it your favorite? I love that we’re getting some firsthand perspectives here. 😘🤓
I think it exists at the intersection of devotion, and ownership. The pleasure that comes from pampering and treasuring your partner, with a little ownership that allows her to relax and feel “managed” if she wants to.
ANR is so interesting to me because it allows a full spectrum to roles for either participant! Just different moootivating factors.
Rumina, this is why I love hearing your perspective! You always manage to give me something else to chew on. I hadn’t really considered how quickly we feel the need to announce what we aren’t interested in, almost as though being curious might make us guilty by association. And I think you’re onto something there. I do love using humor to make people comfortable enough to talk about things they might otherwise avoid, but I certainly don’t want anyone feeling they’re the joke. And yes, the mind! Good grief, the things we can do with our imaginations. 😉 I suspect some of the most fascinating parts of people’s sexuality have very little to do with the physical act itself. I’m so glad you brought this up, because this is exactly the sort of conversation I was hoping we’d have. 🤓🩷
Mr. French, the overalls and straw hat! 🧑🌾 I do appreciate a man who commits to the part. But I’m more intrigued by her response. She may have been testing the waters with that little HuCow comment, and you were clever enough to pick up on it. Makes me wonder how many fantasies never get explored because neither person quite knows how to bring them up. Although apparently you’ve got one very firm requirement before you’ll head out to the barn. 🐄🤪🧑🌾🤓🐮
Thurston, there’s something awfully appealing about being able to let your guard down with someone because you trust them enough to take the lead. And I like that you brought devotion into it. Being in charge of someone and making them feel cherished aren’t mutually exclusive. Quite the opposite, I’d imagine. 😉 And I’m giving you extra credit for sneaking in that moootivating pun. 😂🐄
When within a close relationship or marriage; I have known the concept but didn’t know it had a name.
Within my own long term trusted relationships I/we have done the whole thing from the concept of breeding to the entire milking thing.
One thing to remember is, keep it grounded, don’t take it too far, use it as a special thing, not a regulatory event or regimented kink.I have enjoyed years of this occasionally in the past.
Alas i am partner free right now and have been for a while.Probably won’t occur again in my lifetime.
@lolamayi12345 my remark wasnt meant as criticism, I just wondered. I noticed it in several comments and i notice it daily in my classroom too. I meant it as an observation. Its a common human reaction to a c9ntroversial subject
Since I am a language nerd and also a debate trainer, i immediately ask myself ‘ why do people say that or what is the function of this remark’. My answers to that question are guesses at this moment. Probably there are more reasons, i dont know. My best guess is that its because hucow is a bit of a taboo even on a site like this.But I am curious. It seems like an opening for a discussion. I absolutely do believe in good intentions, at the same time i ask myself if they have the intended effect. And if they dont have the intended effect, whose problem is it? Can one say everything as long as intentions are good? Is the receiver hypersensitive or mistrusting or just plain difficult?
Language is fascinating. Its layered because there are so many aspects to consider at the same time.
Loved your post. You got me think8ng too girl!!Oh, Rumina, I didn’t take it as criticism at all! ❤️ I love that you made me think. That’s exactly why I write these posts. Not to hear myself talk or have everyone agree with me, but to learn from each other, challenge our assumptions, and have conversations that actually go somewhere. I love walking away from a discussion seeing something a little differently than I did before. And you’ve given me that today. Thank you! ❤️
Dean, I think it’s interesting how many people have explored things long before discovering there was a name for them! And I like your point about keeping it something special rather than turning pleasure into another obligation. But I wouldn’t be so quick to write off the possibility of enjoying it again. Life has a funny way of surprising us when we’ve stopped expecting it. 😉
I always watch videos about Hucow. I find domination and submission exciting. If I was lactating, I would love to be connected to a goat milking machine to feel the sensation, but I don’t think it would be something that would be part of everyday life.
I would love a sexy, cute little Cow costume and be milked manually but delicately. 🥰💕💕💕I think aspects sound interesting (sans the humiliation and perhaps other things), but I want to build off the what @sensualguy said that it makes most sense when it is an aspect. For me, it would have to be like an enhancement of the connection and not the focal point, as a performance can only last for so long before the curtains have to close.
Lola,
I leave the place unattended for five minutes and come back to find you’ve conducted a full agricultural census. 😂Fifty-four?! That’s not a niche. That’s enough for a small herd.
I’m beginning to think we need new forum infrastructure with a cattle grid at the entrance, designated grazing areas and somebody appointed Head of Cowbell Compliance.
Although I’m slightly concerned by the amount of “extracurricular reading” involved here. Most people disappear down a rabbit hole. You appear to have gone through a gate and ended up three fields over.
Still, I admire the commitment to research. 🤓
…and after all that, finishing with “don’t expect me to moo” feels suspiciously specific.
Give it a week, Lola.
I’ll leave this cowbell by the door just in case. 🔔😂
I don’t know, absolutely udder chaos around here!
Triton, you leave me unsupervised for five minutes and then act surprised when I get into trouble? 😂 I was conducting perfectly innocent research until you came along dangling your cowbell. Now I’m wondering whether you intend to supervise my extracurricular activities or become one of them. 😈 And you can put that cowbell away. There are far more interesting sounds you could coax out of me, and not one of them involves mooing. 😘
Five minutes? I’m fairly sure you were unsupervised for only three and look at the state of the place already. 😂
As for supervising your extracurricular activities… I’m beginning to suspect that would require a clipboard, risk assessment and considerably more self-control than I possess. 😈
The cowbell has therefore been officially retired. Apparently the research department has identified far more interesting sounds worthy of further investigation. Purely scientific, obviously. 😇
Although I should probably establish one thing before this experiment gets completely out of hand… am I supervising the trouble, joining in with it or have I somehow become the research subject? 😉
Oh, Triton, darling, you lost any chance of being the responsible adult the moment you admitted your self-control was questionable. 😂😈 And as for your role? I have absolutely no intention of letting you stand on the sidelines with a clipboard. I want you right in the middle of the trouble with me. Although I rather like the idea of making you my research subject. I’ve a wicked curiosity about what it takes to make a man as quick-witted as you completely lose his train of thought. Care to let me find out? 😘🔥
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