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There is no smoke without a fire they say so I wonder about chemistry on abf heaven:
1. when does the fire ignite for you in an online chat ? Do you just say hi and wait for her to keep talking?
2. Is the immediate attraction to another important? What do you do when you feel that attraction? How do you show that to her?
3. What about attractions that develop between someone you initially thought was not something you were looking for or would not consider as a suitable partner? How do you adjust to that scenario when you suddenly realize what a great person they are.. how do you tell them your feelings?
4. How do you deal with that attraction as your conversation progresses over weeks as life intervenes and the time interval between messages is longer ? Do you feel like she doesn’t like you anymore or do you not like her when she’s more into you now?
5. Say you messaged a woman when you saw their pic (chest) or something they wrote or said caught your attention what else would you like to know about her? I mean what makes you dig deeper to get to know her or do you keep it at surface level and you do not want to know much about her just want to concentrate on the abf aspect of what you’re looking for…meaning anyone with breasts will do..
6. Does a full fledged woman wanting you make it sexy or just the size of her chest anatomy interests you and everything else you time out as just noise ..?
7. If the whole woman excites you .. to the point where you are just giddy to talk to her what do you do? Do you go all out and tell her you like her as a whole person or do you worry about rejection if you came out and showed your interest openly to her ?
I am going to cheat and just say this…if they are a great human, that is literally hotter and sexier for me than anything else, so that is what the attraction is for me. Obviously if the other person wants to share information about themselves, photos, etc, that is always appreciated and I know that they do feel some sort of attraction, even on a platonic level
Online? I have not found that spark that becomes a forest fire. My first ANR started in person inconspicuously and in person as simply an ANR and grew into love. I read the bios, seeking ANR with LTR, seeking LTR with ANR, etc. So I think “I am mature and can get along with all most anyone.” Reality dictates a different approach I guess.
Fate and hope may lead to perfect solution and until then the wheel in the sky keeps turning and I keep meeting nice people.So to walk my way through your questions. 1. So the “Fire” starts pretty early on. I’m in a smaller city and there are not many people here that have found this page or are so secretive about there wants and desires they are to afraid to speak up and have them helped with. When I did have someone that spoke they immediately hopped off the conversation because they wanted someone who was experienced. I get that, however if your new to it also, why not work on it together?
2. “Immediate Attention”.. Toee.is getting to know some one. Sure they can be beautiful, however attitude, aura, presence all pay a roll. This is not just a one time thing. It takes time to “Nurture” the passion and care for everything. 2B. What I would do when I feel the attraction? I would communicate with them that I have the attraction and would like to see it grow. 2C. Communication, support, care, making sure she is taken care of with what she wants before my wants.3. You never know till you get to shoot your shot if they Re a suitable Partner or not. 3B. As far as letting someone know my feelings when we click it telling them directly. Showing them that I am in this relationship 100 percent. Not that I was not before, however I’m locked in..
4. Time and message distance, I keep in touch and let them know I’m still here and available to them. That I’m not going any where. Here with open arms. 4B. If she’s.more I to me then I want her to tell me that. Communication is key.
5. Not even pic. It’s location!!! There are hundreds of amazing women here that all are wonderful. However I can’t make a 22hr drive to meet someone for an evening at dinner to get to know them. Now a 3 hr drive maybe. However we are going to talk for a while and get to know each other truly. I want to truly get to know my soul mate. That’s the connection level I’m looking for. If a Suckle Buddy comes along then so be it, and maybe we will hit it off and take care of each other’s desires. However..
6. If someone wants me and is ready then so be it. I’ll make it happen if that’s where it goes, if she is well endowed then that’s a bonus, not a deal breaker.
7. If the “Whole Woman””Package” excites me to talk to her then I tell her that. If it’s meant to be it will be.
Oh what a great answer !! I forgot to add a great human being as one of the answers. Yes that’s incredibly sexy when you know at a gut level that you like this person in and out. 🥰🔥🤗🤗
Oh no bob we need to ignite that spark again in you. Come and flirt with some of the great ladies on here and do a little cha cha cha ..💕😍😘
Oh Nathan you really tried to answer all my questions without cheating like the 2 before you so hats off to you! It shows me your sincerity and I have to say sincerely that that character is extremely underrated but one of the most important things to look for in a partner.. because that shows that you’re willing to put the effort to get what you need. I say “need” and not “want” because that’s what an anr is ..!! A need and not just a want. We need it like air in our lives in order to survive !! Kudos again 🤗
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