I find it fascinating you want others to label themselves for you but you don’t even mention it as a dealbreaker in your own profile.
Or hey maybe just have a conversation with someone and figure out what they’re into and whether you mesh.
This isn’t a drive-through. We’re not on a menu. If you’re having bad interactions figure out what you can do to solve that, not what you want to force others to do to make it better for you.