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Do any of you lovely people find abf attracts a lot of men who are deeply traumatised or have serious unresolved trauma or pain, deep-rooted emotional wounds, such as neglect, or abuse. I’ve had a few men message me who seem to tell me of the horrors and trauma they have experienced very early on in conversation.
Do they possibly associate abf with maternal love and feel that we are emotionally warm, protective, have empathy or are extremely caring towards weaker/smaller creatures by default.
As I’m not a therapist I find it very uncomfortable at times. If you’ve experienced this, how do you deal with it.
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I found your post interesting. I think yes, men into abf were probably emotionally neglected as a baby and they had their mothers love withdrawn from an early age and seek abf to relive that close connection with their mother that was taken from them. Psychologically it makes a lot of sense. I think men on here are looking for a deep connection which abf would offer them. Im not sure its totally unhealthy as obtaining abf may help them a lot, but it may not be what the women wants in the dynamic. Thats my take anyway but I think your on to something. Also maybe if they were bottle fed they seek a maternal connection they never had
@tony100 thank you. That’s another take on it. I’ve been told some extremely disturbing stories of abuse. It’s hard to get into the frame of mind for suckling once those thoughts are in my head.
Yes its something I am aware of. Withdrawing of a mothers love is very damaging and effects intimate relationships ongoing. I guessing maybe an ANR could be very good for the man, and fixed those wounds potentially.
By today’s standards… parts of my childhood (that I vividly remember) could be categorized as abusive. (I could’ve been an Everlast punching bag spokes kid. OR be a David Morgan quality tester. 😉😁Lol) Yeah, that’s why I need and want a mild-mannered (yet passionate), warm, loving, kind, nurturing partner. I’ve never had a nightmare when I was blessed with a nursing partner. Also, maybe it’s just me but, I’ve felt so refreshed and energized. Almost carefree. ABF/ANR is appreciated on so many levels.
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