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Is the work and effort that goes into inducing worth the outcome or the potential disappointment in the lack of outcome?
…I feel inclined and curious to go through with the full experience but am wondering how different dry nursing vs full on feeding really is:
Is the connection any different?
How is the sensation different?
Any advice and personal experience is appreciated, thank you!!Can’t answer from woman’s perspective. Only from the man’s perspective. To me, it is a HUGE difference. The feeling of the milk hitting the back of my mouth. You can actually hear it squirting because of the mouth and ear proximity (partner couldn’t hear it, but I could.) The taste is electrifying. And then there is the psychological and spiritual effect of actually being fed, of taking in something of your partner. I used to see how long the taste would linger once I was finished. Sometimes it could last for hours.
For me the bond starts when I am dry nursing. The cuddling and skin to skin contact is an amazing connection to make. When the milk does come in both can rejoice and enjoy. Yes having milk is truly precious to share in but the bond is created when both commit to the ltr result. If there is a connection made from dry nursing the bond after the milk comes in is unbreakable and sharing your milk in indeed your SUPERPOWER as a woman. Your milk will contain stem cells and a host of other life saving ingredients that can cure many health ailments. The stem cells in breast milk have been proven to kill cancer cells. Good luck and hang in there , there were times when i was helping induce my partner that it took 4-5 weeks and the help of Dom. It is indeed worth it my friend.
Never had to induce lactation although i have helped families do this in a work capacity.
There shouldn’t be a reason why it wouldn’t work unless there was a major issue with hormones. The female body is designed to do it, it’s just a case of perseveranceFyi, thanks for saying it’s a superpower John 💪💪
Great questions. Over the years I’ve come to realize I only want to be lactating if it’s part of an integrated loving, bonded relationship where two people are under the same roof.
For me, I want every step of the journey to be connected. Every milestone and challenge to be celebrated and overcome together.
So unless I’m in that situation I’d rather be dry.
For some women their heart and milk go together so there never would be milk unless their heart was involved.
There’s so many reasons women want to lactate. If you know what your motivation is, that may help you determine if you’d find the effort of inducing worth it.
I hope what I’m going to say makes sense. I would say that the milk brings a whole new level of intimacy to the relationship. The physical need for the breasts to be emptied reinforces the spiritual and metaphysical bond that is built during dry nursing. I truly experienced this when I was in an ANR.
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