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Realizing through conversation that there’s a big divide between those who want kids and who don’t here. There’s also many that already have kids.
As someone who’s already been sterilized, I’m on the no kids side obviously. But I’m also a dude who can’t give birth.
Is there a difference for women when they have kids to make them want this more? Are my options reduced in this lifestyle more due to the nature of children/motherhood? Would love to hear everyone’s thoughts/experience with this.
It all comes down to personal choice. As a Mother, I can say that already having kids makes relactation an easier process than for a woman who hasn’t had kids. At the beginning of my ANR journey, the idea of more kid(s) was on the table still but no longer is as that was 8, almost 9 years ago! I don’t think you not wanting kids will hinder your journey, but like any dating site, it just takes time to find someone like-minded.
No I don’t think your inability to have children would be a hindrance. Like I have my kids so I’m good. Now if I had no kids and wanted them I could see where that would be an issue. But honestly there are some who aren’t sterilized and still do not wish to have kids. So it honestly depends on what you want or willing to accept.
Honestly I have been thinking hard about this question.. I can’t speak for everyone.. I do wonder if having kids allows the woman to naturally like breast feeding for long periods of time.. plus there is the whole nurturing component of breast feeding. At the same time, I don’t think it matters unless lactation is difficult for someone who didn’t have kids. I think it’s all too much overthinking and I am a master of it so I say.. if you find the right partner you would not think too much and everything will fall into place. In the meantime just go and see the monks in the abbey in Austin and ask them for some advice on non feral behavior 🙂 😉
Hi,
I stand with @MizzLizz.Having kids or not is a personal choice, it doesnt have anything to do with wanting an anrlife.
I would love to normalize abf/anr more, so that info on breastfeeding, on clothing, pumps etc isnt directed to mums, but to women.
Huge difference.We do not loose our identity as a woman when we gave birth.
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