So…I must be too rural for my area- anyone seeking a real commitment?

Hi everyone.
There are so many people here, and yet… I still haven’t found my ANR partner — and I do mean ‘partner’. So I’m putting myself out here clearly, hoping the right person recognizes himself in what I’m seeking.

I recently thought I’d found a match (and very quickly), but it turned out I wasn’t ‘his’ match. That’s okay; we all have our ideal fit, and I wish him the absolute best. The silver lining is that he showed me what’s possible here — and now I’m genuinely glad to be on this platform.

A Little About Me

Physically: 42DD, soft, curvy, proportionate; 5’10”; mixed; all-natural; and biologically a woman. My personality is direct, caring, loyal, and very old-fashioned in relationships.

My Values

I believe lactation can be a deeply healthy way to connect — a space for stress relief, intimacy, and mutual respect. Romance matters. Small gestures matter: handwritten notes, cards, doors opened, an arm offered, sharing tea, taking short walks, and keeping a weekly date night to maintain the spark.

Mutual respect is non-negotiable. So is supporting each other’s goals and communicating openly and honestly. I prefer to feel cherished, valued, and truly prioritized — just as I will do for my partner. You will be my man, not my child. We are adults, equals, and partners.

My relationship ideal: we grow together so closely that others see us as a united team.

Faith is important to me. I love the Lord, and attending church on Sundays is something I cherish. I hope we can eventually attend together — not as a requirement, but as a gentle request. Your relationship with God is yours; mine is mine.

The Fun Side of Me

I love to laugh.
I love traveling, scuba diving, and flying.
I love books, the outdoors, and I’m working on building a healthier body image.
I also have two fur-family members — a dog and a cat — who mean a lot to me.

Lifestyle & Time

I’m a full-time university student with very limited free time. So if I make time for you between classes, homework, work, and my business, please understand that you are genuinely valued. And I’d expect the same in return: let’s share and support each other’s goals.

My Personal & Professional Goals

Complete my degrees within the next three years, finishing with a master’s.

Grow my business so I can donate my work income back to the nonprofit I serve part-time.

Build a partnership with someone who wants financial security, stability, shared vision, and quality time.

Support each other’s ambitions, offer our strengths freely, and live with purpose, generosity, and connection.

ANR/ABF Goals

I would love to reach a point in our journey where I am producing enough that you can genuinely feel full — that level of connection and fulfillment brings me deep satisfaction.

My Experience

I’ve lactated twice before, and with proper stimulation, I produce a lot of milk. My last relactation was in 2023. It took two months, following a consistent routine of eight suckling sessions a day — two at night, the rest spaced throughout the day. Each session lasted 20–40 minutes.

My previous partner was amazing: retired, financially secure, I worked from home, and we were both fully committed to the process. We didn’t use pumps; we valued the emotional connection of ANR. It was deeply bonding and very stress-relieving. We used natural supports, plus a healthy diet and exercise routine.

I share all of this to show my commitment, experience, and the level of dedication I bring to a true partnership.

If you made it to the end, thank you! I wish you the best in your search for happiness in an ANR.