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I am looking forward to hearing how all the fine ladies of this website have had their ABF desires satiated by their partners- especially during ABF intimacy. My love language is touch , so for me… hand holding, massage, scratching, hugging, cuddling and lots of light kissing accentuates and is blissful foreplay to me. Please ladies, let us know how to better serve you and provide you with the passion you seek and deserve.
I appreciate your genuine search to better yourself for your partner. I am definitely someone who responds to physical touch. I love to feel a man’s hands on my thighs and buttocks if we’re side lying. When I’m straddling him, I love scratches up my spine and into my scalp. But more so, it’s the emotional connection for me. The best experiences I’ve had are with my current partner. He has taken the time to get to know me. He values my career and my goals. He listens to me when I’m going through difficult times. I feel safe with him because I trust him and I feel valued because he trusts me. So my biggest advice to enhance your abf time with your lady, take time outside of abf to give her mental and emotional peace. Give her space to feel the myriad of things she feels and give her empathy. You don’t have to solve her problems but just be present. When you do this (the way my man does) you will watch your lady blossom in the bedroom and your abf will be more special and intimate because you will be more intuned to each other.
Blackbird, thank you for your insight and sharing what has made your journey enjoyable. Your obvious intelligence has led to your outstanding communication skills and as a result you have been able to achieve a relationship which js rewarding and based on respect and trust. I commend you on helping me see a beautiful females perspective. My woman’s career dedication carries over to our relationship in her dedication and passion. As a famous football coach once said… how you do one thing is how you do everything. That is definitely my partner’s living philosophy. Blackbird, how does your lover physically satisfy you since you are so emotionally connected- are you nipple orgasmic during suckling sessions? Does ABF heighten – what your profile describes as finger play? I am really enthralled by how you instruct us guys here.
My lover has very talented fingers. He uses them judiciously while he suckles. He listens to every moan, every hitch in my breath, and he adjusts accordingly. I have yet to achieve orgasm simply from suckling but I’m sure I will. It’s when he takes his time with me and simply plays and explores that I feel most at ease and then achieve many orgasms in one evening.
Wow Blackbird, what a great and sensual answer. I learn a lot from your responses. Your unbridled passion and expression certainly are an ideal I will strive for in my relationship. Currently we are dealing with a geographic separation due to employment. Also, we had sometime apart, due to my past ignorance. This has led to us reconnecting and very much interested in exploring reclamation play and fantasies. Have you or any other readers have any experiences with these concepts?
I, personally, have not. It sounds exciting, though. What is it like, exactly?
Blackbird, my lover and I are open that while we were apart we directed sexual energy towards other people, which we realize now was not worth our time- so we use those past experiences to fuel our lust and devotion to each other. It’s like when you delete something from your computer/cell phone – you just write over it actually in code. Any feelings of jealousy or pangs of guilt are directed positively onto the present and what can be shared exclusively and savored passionately.
That’s a mature way to deal with your separation. Based on all your forum responses and your post, it seems that you are devoted to your lover and you both share a special bond. It makes me happy to know there are others who enjoy their abf partners the way I enjoy mine.
Thank you Blackbird, for your well wishes and acknowledgment of the relationship I am in. I read your profile and I see that you are 37… so you have been online most of your adult life with the internet being a part of mainstream adult life for over 20 years now. How has being online influenced your ABF journey and how have you used online platforms to accentuate your own personal sexuality as well as your interaction with your partners over your lifetime? I am older .. and wasn’t online in an ABF or intimate way until the last 5 years. I enjoy finding ways to connecting with my long distance lover via various platforms and technology… but always seek to learn and expand my efforts.
Being online and exploring my sensuality, gave me the confidence to actually pursue abf in real life. It took me time to shed a lot of my insecurities enough to want to be touched. Posting anonymous pictures and then sexting guys was definitely a skill set. I enjoy sending videos or audio messages to help guys get off. My voice has the ability to soothe and entice. Guys respond well to being guided to climax. I would highly recommend sending little videos and audio messages to tease your woman. Get her excited. And then video call her for an evening of fun.
Blackbird, thank you for the stimulating reply. The empowerment evolution you have described and experienced is such a beautiful development for a man who wants the most for his woman- and any woman on this site who seeks to express and derive intrinsic rewards from exciting others. As you are on these calls with these online fans and virtual lovers… what has been the result on your body and mind as men tribute your sensual look and talented tounge? What have you seen or heard that turned you off and led to your overall increase in being empowered by your online adventures?
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