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Is physical attraction important to *you*?
Do you appreciate people having body pics on their profile so you know what they look like?
I have PG-rated body pics on mine but I’ve set them to friends only/private because I don’t want to come off as seedy! My intention isn’t to “show off” my body, rather so people know what I look like.
I’d rather see your face than your body
I think it would depend on what type of pictures you have on your profile. If it’s an everyday picture where you’re respectably clothed, which shows your general body type, that would probably come across as a genuine and acceptable glimpse of your build. If you’re shirtless and flexing to show off, I would think that might come across to women as shallow and narcissistic, as though your physique should be all that matters to someone when choosing whether to contact you. But not being female, I couldn’t say for sure.
I think it is very telling that the two women here so far have unamiminously said they would much prefer seeing a guy’s face rather than ANY other part of his body outside his face. I would be taking some notes here on this one, guys. Now the score could really change with more responses, but I think this is very telling of the differences in what a lady wants to see and what a guy thinks she should see. If I were looking for my most attractive attribute to post here, I would trust that the ladies know exactly what they would enjoy seeing. And if we don’t want her to have that… what is wrong with us?
I don’t care much about your body. I want to see your face. It’s nice if you take care of yourself, but just seeing a ripped body does nothing for me. I’d date an overweight man with a nice face. I’m a sucker for a trim beard or just a mustache.
My take on it? I suspect the ladies who “prefer to see a face” will be more disposed to post that response here. The ladies who like seeing hot bodies and a c0ck or two will be more reticent to do so.
That’s just me though, understanding how the world works in reality and not being a complete clueless moron.
Your take on what women want even though women are clearly telling you what they want. Hey, but don’t listen to us. Keep sending those unsolicited dick pics and getting blocked.
Dick pics? I don’t even have a profile pic on here, never mind pornographic media.
I can only suggest you get out of your feelings. It wasn’t aimed at you personally so theres no reason for you to take it personally.
My point is women will want different things. Because women are different. But the answer you’ll see posted and re-posted here is: “I want a face pic”. Because that’s the acceptable response. Not a controversial statement. Just reality.
I love a handsome face!
I don’t really care for shirtless pics, honestly. They are nice to see, but in moderation.
Like above, it’s nice to know you take care of yourself and at the end or the day I want to look at the man and know he’s more than a body. Just like I’m more than my milk and boobs.
If it’s just abs, or underwear pictures OR unsolicited. I won’t interact and/or block. We are grown here. Let’s act like it. Having to teach a man (or woman) how to be a man is such a turn off.
Suggest I get out of my feelings?? Lol. Absolutely not. It’s not about what is “acceptable”, but you just refuse to accept what we are telling you. The question was about what we want. You think you know what women want better than actual women telling you what we want. It’s so frustrating.
I shan’t bother rehearsing the fundamental point.
You’re arguing emotionally, presuming to speak for all women AND ignoring concerns about appearances.
Quite the feat of gibberish actually.
@jibbysheaven @sam
Mansplaining at its finest. Thanks for demonstrating exactly why we have to keep repeating ourselves.
You’re welcome, Milky.
Men are perfectly entitled to explain things. They’re not required to capitulate merely because a woman has expressed a contrary view. I’m afraid women don’t have a monopoly on explanations.
Trust you understand.
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