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Hi all. Im Max, im 26 and i live in Melbourne. I have been on this site and other for close to two years now with no luck in finding a like minded person.
I have been facinated and obsessed with breastmilk and breastfeeding for a few years after an encounter with a lady who was lactating.
Id like someone to point me in the right direction, be it advice on things to say in an opening message or looking in the right place.
I crave the motherly feeling from a mature woman who will cradle my head while I latch on. Please helpNothing about an opening message matters if you can’t maintain the authenticity behind your intentions. This seems to be a relatively small community, compared to others.
My advice would be to treat it as it’s something you want to commit to. All I took from your message is that you’re obsessed with breastmilk, suckling, and you crave a mature woman’s motherly feeling. That’s it. I don’t know if you’ve been reading around on the site, but it seems like a lot of women aren’t interested in satisfying whatever desires you may have, being fetishized, or being treated as a “lactation station”, of you will(gotta plug the pod).
I don’t know, maybe there’s a person out there and that’s right up there alley, but that doesn’t seem to be the case here. Articulate yourself. Be authentic. Open up and get to know the person. Act like you’re on an actual date, them there in front of you.
I’m assuming you have family, a job, friends, coworkers. Striking up a conversation with them is no different than it is on here…. We’re just not in front of you. I think that’s the most important thing; Make the person you’re talking to feel “seen”. That alone is electrifying enough for someone to want to be around you.
We’re playing the long game, friend. Settle in, and pay attention to what you’re reading on this site. Most importantly, you’ll learn how NOT to act and things will hopefully sort themselves out from there.
Thank you very much for your comments and guidence, thats all very helpful.
Amen to what WAY said! Treat women as people, be transparent about who you are. Chat in the chat room so people can see how you deal with group dynamics. Leave voice messages there once in awhile for authenticity.
Much of this journey is about self discovery I’ve found. Be the best person you can be. Work on yourself to attract the type of partner you’re looking for.
Don’t make any assumptions, ask women if they are open to gentle questions about who they are as people, not about their breasts.
Remember women are vastly outnumbered here and are often bombarded with messages. Make your message stand out by sharing something about yourself that’s not in your profile.
Posting your message here asking for help shows you want to learn and are approachable.
All the best to you on your journey.
In a very loving relationship with lady of similar age. We both enjoy suckling as part of our love making. It is very erotic, bonding and intimate.
We have been trying to induce for about a year with no success due to work commitments. Fenugreek does have a great affect on her tits but so far no milk.
We have avoided dom because of health warnings.
She pumps as often as possible within work constraints.
We would love to hear from anyone of similar age with experience and information to answer questions. We are not looking for meet ups or extra partners.
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