Why do we have sex? Take a moment now and actually think about the reasons you have sex, then write them down if you need to, your answers might surprise you. Or maybe you’ve never really given it much thought. But today, on Friday, a day that gets its name from Norse Goddess Freyja and therefore typically associated with goddess feminine energies, but also love and sex, this is an important topic to discuss.
I’d like to ask you all to watch this video, if some of you are friends with me, I may have sent this to you. In this video, Pete Wilson and Anaiya Sophia, (known for her work with feminine awakenings) ask the uncomfortable questions … the questions we must ask if we are to free ourselves from everything that is colluding with our awakening into becoming better people. Why are WE (men and women) having Sex? Are they for GOOD AND HONEST, SOULFUL reasons?
The reasons you have sex actually could determine why your relationship works or does not work. For those who are married but their wives are no longer interested in sex, please watch this. And wives or female partners, you too! I used to coach couples in the past and teach Tantra (I still offer private consultations online) and I need to share that there is a disconnect between couples due in part to 2 things; the first one, that “Sophia” is nowhere to be seen in our relationships or modern lives and the second has everything to do with communication at all levels, in and out of the bedroom. Quality vs quantity. It simply isn’t happening! In fact most people are very quick to engage in virtual sexual encounters or take their clothes off, but still keep an “armor” on even when they engage in sex.
How can we really connect with a person if we are not ready to stand truly naked before them? And if we cannot truly connect, sex loses its appeal after a while for both parties, not just the women, as the men feel unsatisfied; before long, they will cheat on their wives with porn, or virtually not realising that women have a sixth sense for this, and that they will be driving them away further. Out of mind, out of sight does not apply to women, remember, we were once Goddesses. We still are, even when we do not know it.
I hope this video stirs something up inside all of you. I’d really love an honest discussion on this topic, maybe live voice chat too. Let me know your thoughts!
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Elayne (Sophia Unveiled)