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What do you call someone who adds you as friend but never sends you messages? They never respond to your message? Is this considered a troll? Why add you in the first place? No they don’t have any pictures on their profile that require being s friend to view..
Just curious what people think?
I agree with you I also find it weird people send friend request and u never even had a conversation with them sometimes I feel like some of these profiles are bots and trolls of course, which makes it really hard to connect with someone here
@marcus, that’s called Silent friends…😁
Coco …there are no bots on this site, zero.
What’s a troll? Lots of different definitions for that.
Question: why would you accept a friend request from a random stranger without having exchanged at least a few PMs first? Doesn’t make sense. Only reason I can think of …because you want to see the pics in their Media? Is that it?
What do you do? Delete!
Some people are collectors of friends. Do you think all the “popular” members actually speak with all their friends?If someone isn’t interested in connecting why add them as a friend. You don’t have to respond to a request immediately, let it sit there. If they don’t respond to a message, delete the request.
I had one person send a request at least 8 times and never sent a message. I finally blocked him since he couldn’t get the hint.
Guys accept friend invites from women they find attractive because it is assumed they like you if they invite you to be friends no different than Facebook. Difference is many are quick to collect friends then disappear.
@suckie-duckynj that is an assumption and it seems quite gullible if you ask me. There has to be some form of discernment. There is no need to immediately friend anyone on any platform. Test the waters with a message. If it’s a dead end; delete the request. If not, see how the conversation flows before accepting the friend request.
Some people jump on and off here rather quickly, especially those who expect to find a partner immediately like this is Tinder. They stack all these friends, hit dead ends then leave the site.
I get loads of friend requests from people all over the world. Personally I think it’s so they can snoop at my photos. Anyhow I just went through my friend list again now and deleted loads who havent been in touch in months.
Good idea Juicy Boobies.
When I’ve received a friend request without a message I just message them back. Sometimes the request goes away. Sometimes they message back.
At least u don’t engage in useless conversations with pictures collectors and time wasters..
Been a member a while. I put very little on my profile, due to fear of job related issues if discovered.
I have met 3 people, and have positive friendships with them all.
I can tell some people don’t want to communicate with me because of limited profile info. I just have to find peeps that understand my plight.
I gather that women get alot more communication than men do. I just reach out with a hello, here’s who I am,,,
It is frustrating when people don’t respond, but, this portal has been very positive.
All the best to everyone.
I really like how the site is set up that if a random person sends a friend request without a message, it’s blatantly obvious they ignored the big blank square where a message should go.
It’s really hard to gauge the intent of other people though because there’s so many reasons people are here.
Angelo whilst I agree with some of your post I have no intention of replying not interested to every message I recieve. If people actually read my profile before messaging me, they would see I clearly ask people not to contact me unless they live on the same island as me, and yet people still text saying, I know I’m the other side of the world from you, all I read after that is …blah blah blah….
Angelo ….
Re. fake female profiles … there are none on this site created by me. Zero. However, you often see this effect of create/delete, it’s the user themself playing silly games. I try to keep it under control, but it happens.
I delete lots of female accounts as well as male. Using the “voice chat” it’s easy to ask any [suspicious] user for a quick ten second hello. All I need is to hear a female voice, nothing more. They refuse? Account deleted.
Re. letting users see who visited their profile. ….we tried this, it caused problems. Suddenly guys were messaging every single female who viewed their profile. Pestering them. It became impossible for women to read profiles in relative privacy. So that function was removed.
Hi there Mike,
Thanks for your reply addressing the issues I mentioned, just to be clear, I didn’t say there were fake profiles here.
And yeah,I agree,I guess that some people just sign up to see what’s up….then they’re not sure its their thing, and never log back in…
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