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I am curious what members thoughts / assessment may be about ANR/ABF being perhaps more openly accepted / common specifically in Europe, (if so what country(s)), than it is in the U.S.
I am from California, but for years have now lived in the Phoenix metro area of Arizona. I am in my thirties, handsome, charming and have little trouble finding beautiful women to date, but having been on this milk quest in search of a true ANR relationship for approximately 6 years now, I am continuously amazed at how challenging that seems to be to find… It does seem to be very much taboo and in the fringe of what is accepted here in the U.S., and I am very curious what experience or advice other members here may have about that lifestyle being perhaps more openly accepted outside of the U.S. (Europe or elsewhere), than It is here.
I am recently single again and very open to pursuing this passion even outside the U.S. on a bit of an exploration for wherever that May take me!
Pls offer any thoughts, advice and stories of experiences here or elsewhere for finding this type of relationship that I do desire and seek so much!
Thank you!
Brandon
Good question, this. I would suggest that people in non-English speaking countries have an even HARDER time finding a partner than those in the USA/UK etc. I sometimes ask members about non-English language websites dealing with ABF …and usually the answer is “There are none in my language”. So this would suggest that interest in/acceptance of ABF in countries like France/Germany/Italy etc is not high …otherwise they’d have their own popular websites, right?
Is ABF more accepted in the UK than in the USA? Maybe a little. But not much more. Wherever you are, your chances of finding a partner (via the internet) depends really on how heavily populated your area is. Everything else is secondary. Unfortunately.
Brandon, I’ve been part of the ANR community online, off and on for 20 years and can say with certainty there’s no where in the world that it’s easier than anywhere else. Based on the vast number of posts and people and sites and groups I’ve connected with in that time, it’s challenging everywhere.
When you consider all the things that need to be in alignment for a meaningful, solid relationship…then add in two people needing to view and desire ANR through a similar lens, it’s like significantly narrowing down a database search until you get very few results.
The fact you’re open to relocating rather than only looking locally increases the likelihood of finding a meaningful connection.
All the best to you.
You beat me to it @londonman
All the men who seem to be a perfect match for me live in the US so I just assumed it was more accepted there.
I’m in the UK so can’t speak for the rest of Europe but from hearing comments in groups I’m in, people from France and Italy really struggle too. I don’t think it’s an isolated problem, it’s worldwide.
Good luck and I’m sure you’ll find her soon 🤞🏽
Respectfully I disagree with Michael @tuehlykv re: heavily populated areas. I used to believe that too, but a much larger city for me just brought more married men wanting drop in snack bar nursing. Even a massive website like Fetlife where ANR is considered barely taboo and quite vanilla, still didn’t increase the likelihood unless I just wanted casual nursing.
This site is the first I’ve come across where I think people actually have a chance of connecting. Largely because it’s set up to be interactive which helps connections grow and increases a person’s visibility if they are active in chat and in forums by engaging with others and starting their thoughts.
I am inclined to agree with @londonman and @mskaramellatte the grass is always greener on the other side. All the men with the exception of one that I have clicked with have been in the UK and I am in the US. It just always seem to work that way. I do sincerely hope you find what you are looking for!
No in europe its Euuw or disgusting to breastfeed adult
People from USA UK , JAPAN,AuSTRALIA seams more open to ANRABF
Hi Brandon
I’m married and so I have some experience on long term relationships. Given you can easily date women then my advice to you is to find a kindred spirit lady that you discover in your initial sexual foreys to be welcome to attention to her breasts. She does not need to know about the world of ANR/ABF. I highly doubt she will. She’ll also initially find it odd if you give her breasts a lot more attention than she is used to, so go slowly here. But here’s the thing, long term relationships that grow allow for experimentation and/or allow for the pleasing of your significant others interests. It may take a while, several years maybe, for things to progress but I believe in a good relationship they will. So bottom line, if you find a kindred spirit lady that is not averse to breast play then in time you will most likely find yourself in an ANR with her. The key is in her initial aversion or reception to breast play. If you find she doesn’t like it from the get go then you’ll find she never will. Your desire there will never become hers. Trust me, I know. You cannot negotiate desire.Here in Canada we seem to have pockets of people. They seem to be in Ontario Toronto specifically. Alberta, and BC. There doesn’t seem to be to many in Manitoba or Saskatchewan sadly enough.
ANR / ABF can make you feel incredibly lonely.
But if you were in Europe, you’d think it’s more popular in the USA.
It’s tough to even find someone in a big city.
Remember, just because you’re near others into this, doesnt mean they’re into you. That’s a whole other piece to the puzzle.
Gonna be honest there are many people into ANR and ABF all around the world.
But many women (and men) have such high expectations of what their partner looks like that they will never find anyone that ticks the boxes.
“I can’t find anyone”=”I can’t find anyone I think is attractive”
This reply is slightly fuelled by my own experience. I have no problem meeting with women who find me attractive (and me them) on Tinder etc but God damn some I’ve talked to on here and other ABF sites expect Brad Pitt or something.
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