Just starting out, where to look

Greetings everyone! A bit of backstory first… Im a veteran and found that suckling worked better at relieving anxiety and provided a natural anti-depressant than the cocktail of meds the VA was constantly trying to push. My ex and I were both very into it at first as it helped with the closeness of our relationship and it made me feel better. Because of work and life, we could only have a shirt session after work and then prior to going to bed. For her own reasons, it tapered off as she had other priorities.

Now that I’m single, I would very much like to find a woman who shares the interest and wants to create a beautiful relationship. Unfortunately, there’s hardly any in my area thst seem to have an interest. There are 3 that I have communicated with from here… one is moving out of state, one has seemingly ghosted me and the last lives out of state but visits my area occasionally.

So I come to you all, open to all suggestions.

Are there other sites I might use to meet someone?

When it comes to online… im not exactly sure when it’s appropriate to ask to meet in person (in a public place) to verify identities. I’m actually a really polite and respectful guy, so I just throw it out there for the lady to let me know when she’s ready to meet. The last thing I want to do is to be pushy.