- This topic has 13 replies, 10 voices, and was last updated 2 years, 3 months ago by
.
-
Posts
-
Question for the peanut gallery. I was introductory chatting with someone (just the basic hellos and MINOR info), was asked what my work schedule was so we could communicate further at a later time. I advised I was working at home until January, so they should feel free to reach out whenever was convenient. And I received the following response:
“What happens in January? I work from home all the time so we could nurse whenever you’re able. Unless I’m con a conference call or zoom meeting lol.”
My question…is the response presumptuous?
Your time is your own even if you were in a relationship. The assumption that you would need to be always available is a bit much, even if you were deeper into communication. As one of the first communications? RED FLAG. The entitlement is showing. However, if everything else is wonderful, perhaps it was poorly worded and you could point that out and see if the person corrects the presumption.
Ahhh…thanks Pink. Further info…his response was fairly gaslit. 😳🤷🏻♀️
Yes, presumptuous. Turning a discussion about available chat time into one about nursing time is presumptuous.
It’s like the cheesy question “What about breakfast . . . should I call you or nudge you?” 😒
@gentlemanjim
Give it up, Jim. Sounds like you have used this line before.
You could just start suckling and that would kill two birds with one stone. 🤣😘Yes.
He’s presumed that it’s a forgone conclusion that you will meet and he will automatically suckle from you on his schedule.
It’s up to you if that’s a problem or not of course.
Does this really warrant a whole post? Seems an over reaction to a saucy / provocative comment.
This site is focused on ABF and ANR, it’s not workinfromhomeRus. Is it inappropriate, potentially (perception), but really…this is where we want to go on this?!!!
“I’ve just seen naked breasts shared by a lady, does this presume I find this acceptable”. 🙄🙄
Oh dear, are you feeling a bit grumpy today? Maybe go and look at those breasts again and…relax 😉
Yeah, it is a bit presumptuous, but to be honest I have heard much worse. I would take this as him speaking hypothetically. I was told today by a man on this site, that he is flying to the airport nearest to me and he “will suckle my breasts” 😳 not that he would like to, but that he will. Sometimes I feel like we need a report to the police button next to the block button.
@rachyj 😉
I think you get my point exactly.
This has been far from worst comment I’ve gotten since I’ve been back on site this week. Already a deleted user from an unsolicited Dick pic, thank you Michael.🙌🏽 As well as two offers (via first contact) to fuck me as long as they can keep their eyes open??? WTF!
And of course I presented this as a “question” to be polite (because of course as ladies, we are EXPECTED to be polite and demure…NO MATTER HOW WE ARE APPROACHED). In reality, I was attempting to offer a polite reminder to a few to check their sense of entitlement.
But in retrospect…maybe the red flags should be “respected” without warning.😉 Block, block, block…
Screen names such as mine…well, a defense mechanism and response to having been on this site before, and wading through the “****” to try and find the sparkle of another good human soul.
From the raunchy, to the entitled, to the thoughtless…all the crap impacts the other person being interacted with.
CHOOSE TO LIFT THOSE UP AROUND YOU, Not drag them down.
Peace to all.💋
Oh ok, I was going to say, if that shocked you then buckle up! 😂🤣 yeah, I’m finding it exhausting to be honest and questioning if it’s actually worth the hassle. I think my former ANR partner was the exception to the rule for me and I probably should have just quit while I was ahead, when he moved to another country 😳
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.