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Men. Let’s talk.
This is not Craigslist, grinder, tinder, or a fetish page. Love breasts? Great. As a man you should. However, there’s a woman attached to them lovely body parts.
The posts we make, the way we present ourselves, the language we use.. it matters. Be respectful, responsible, and have honor when talking to the women here and elsewhere, please. Instead of making them run, flooding their inboxes, and stalking them.. introduce yourself and keep the cringe details for later in the relationship building process. Time and place fellas. Have some patience, learn to listen. Making forum posts that announce we are disgusting and completely void of ability to have a good relationship – you’re kicking all of us men in the junk, those posts have to stop.
The women we want to meet, we want to converse with, share our time with – they will respond more in kind with kindness. If y’all want the “bar type” women, go to the bar. Let’s try and use some better language to represent ourselves here and improve how men are viewed on this page.
One word…neanderthal.
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I think that for some it is a “kink” and some join looking for instant online sexual gratification. I do think that for most on here it is a lifestyle and something that adds value to a relationship. It’s really important to find out what the other person is looking for before making an assumption and going straight into sexting. That can’t be handled by reading their bio and talking to them beforehand. Those looking for the instant sexual gratification often forget that the person at the other end of the communication is a person, not an object just there to satisfy their fantasy.
Usually the words men use tell one everything one needs to know if there is only a very short one direction interest or if there is anything else, but people also fake it so they can get the instant gratification of someone who wants more.
If any serious conversation goes straight to the word “suckle” is really a turn off.Treat others as you wish to be treated. That works for me.
Me thinks Neanderthals might be insulted being compared to some of these guys.😜
Thank you Cowboy. Our actions and words follow us. It’s all about the character and depth of the man and woman (because it goes both ways). We women need to respect our worth in every way. Please remember that if someone is attracted just by the outward physical appearance of a body part then that attraction won’t last long if there is no depth of attachment because something newer and/or better will ultimately come along.
We get attracted to the outward beauty of a flower but the fragrance embeds deeper into our psyche. Be the fragrance and make a difference in people’s lives even if they are not permanent in your life. Be the change that you would like to see in others.
Peace ☮️ and Love
I appreciate this post so much. Hopefully it’s actually read and taken to heart. Thank you for sharing.
Well I think this applies to like EVERY online platform where men go to find women. Always nothing but them showing off below the belt immediately.
I don’t understand this either since like 95% of women rather see your face.
Just treat people kindly and approach as if you were meeting them face to face! Would you pull your pants down in a bar and show off your goods before your face?? 😂
Ok my rant done…..have a happy Friday
I don’t get it. What’s with men with female profile pictures? Or men boasting having DD breasts? Am I on the right site? Is this where I can find a real woman who is really iso of a real man to suckle her real breasts?
Roger. I pondered this question for a while but then the answer became obvious to me (but obviously not to those who flaunt their manhood). It’s because such men presume (wrongly) that women think like men. Sure, you might find that hens-teeth woman who likes to have such show up unasked for in their mailbox. But really, what are the percentages of that happening?
I kind of like men who do that because that diminishes the number of men I actually have to compete against.
Do on to others as you would have them do onto you. I would want to be treated with respect and to have someone want to get to know me as a person with thoughts, feelings, and dreams, not some sort of a one trick pony.
I always find threads like these rather peculiar because all this is a given anyway. I makes some men belive they’re eneitled to a response for being polite – “Hey, I was polite, why aren’t you responding?!”.
In reality, the issue is the ratio and the fact that things move fast online. As a man, you’re going to get ghosted or ignored most of the time. There are times where I really do feel invisible. It can be mentally draining trying to get a response to your messages, let alone meet somebody.
I’m sorry you’ve had that experience and from talking to men, I can tell you that you’re definitely not alone there. Unless someone is rude or gross, I always reply to their messages, even if it’s just to say that I’m sorry but I don’t think we’re going to be compatible and I wish them the best in their search.
Maybe I’m showing my age lol, but to me it’s just as rude to ignore someone who’s talking to you over messages, as it is to ignore someone who’s in front of you and talking to you. I think it’s sad that men expect to be ignored and women who do it should stop calling men out for their treatment of women.
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