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Ego boost? Seriously? If I dont want to reply to someone I dont. I am looking to meet someone in my own country of similar or older age, I get loads of messages from people half way across the world and also half my age. I used to reply to be polite but that just leads to loads more messages trying to convince me why younger man are better or that distance doesnt matter and they will fly to me etc. No thanks.

I mean… No one has to respond. Being polite doesn’t entitle you to a response, you should be polite anyway.

Yes it’s frustrating when you don’t seem to be having much success but having tantrums don’t really paint you in a good light.

You’re not doing anyone a “favour” by suckling them. When someone wants to be suckled, they want to be suckled by someone they *want* not just anyone who comes their way.

If it’s obvious you didn’t read my profile, why would I respond?

And this is a perfect example why people are blocked preemptively.

Hello Daz, thank you for taking time to post this interesting question. I have posted a comment similarly about being blocked for little to no reason.

I can assure you what I am going to say is going to anger many so this is my preface. 2 main points

1. This site is intended for women, it has been designed to be a safe place for women. I understand that and respect that.
2. What your saying is a logical response.
Ex. If you want milk for $3.00, and the store sells milk for $3.00, then you should buy the milk for $3.00? men yes, women yes

Men utilize logic, women utilize emotion. Same scenario
If you want milk for $3.00, and the store sells milk for $3.00, but last five times you bought it was $2.25,then you should just buy the milk for $3.00? men yes, women no

A great suckler contacts you that fills all your interest, would you at least respond?
Logical Answer: Sure why not
Emotional Answer: well what if he is too far or too old or too young or too dark

same question difference subject

A great job that pays, 1,000,000 a year, would you at least respond?
Logical Answer: Sure why not
Emotional Answer: well what if its too far or I am too old or too young or too dark

Notice More emotion is used for one and not the other:

Not many people are going to find a job paying 1 million dollars,
however on this site since men clearly out number women, many use emotion to guide their decisions and not logic.

Now I know many are going to say well, one is a job and the other is a suckling opportunity.
Thats the emotional response. The logical response is they are both the same..

Logically, all that is being asked of each is a simple response. You Still have to go to the interview and fill out job application and see if your a fit for either.

Women tend to showcase emotion more than men and since this site is designed to make women more comfortable, they tend to have more power or say on this site. Women will more often seek coping mechanisms such as verbalizing, seeking support, and using positive self-talk (Tamres et al., 2002).

Notice all the comments, that refer to men asking about blocking or why they blocking or comments, do you notice more women tend to reply then men? Is it because women seek support are able to verbalize and everyone wants to support a woman its in our nature.

The clear cookie cutter emotional response is “because they don’t have to
a woman doesn’t have to reply to you on a social site. DUHH!!”

But Logicallly, why is a woman on a social site if she doesn’t plan on being social?

Emotion!!

If you were at a new job and someone said hi to you,95% of us would respond back?

If you are new on this site and someone said hi to you, how many have responded back?

At work we don’t care, where your from? are you married? Do you have kids?

Remember those don’t matter just to respond.

Please respond with logical answers and not emotional ones.

Marcus, I hate to say this but your logic is totally illogical. more totally FUBAR than anything else and on so many levels and I’m being nice. I see why you get blocked, you may want to rethink what you posted, I’m quite sure a whole lot more just blocked you.

What in the fuck is it with men and their sense of entitlement today? I have received 3 messages today asking “why are you ignoring me” then I come across this forum post. The reason you’re likely being ignored is because more often than not when a woman says not interested, she is then called a fat ugly bitch or something along those lines. I’m not saying you have or would do that, but it happens, a lot. Furthermore, you nor anyone else on this site man or woman is entitled to a reply.