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I always fancied being breastfed and soon I will be starting my journey.
For the moment im not into the sexual part and into only having suckling sessions with a trusted partner.
– Is these type of relation common ?
– What is the best way to handle the situation where both or one of the parties get aroused ?
Would love to hear your feedback and the bestway to prepare for this journey.
You’re definitely not alone. I’m seeking exactly the same thing myself, and so do a number of others, particularly women. Everyone is unique, with their own desires, likes and hates, some of which can change over time based on our experiences and who we meet.
Although I don’t think of breasts or suckling as sexual, I can’t help sometimes becoming physically aroused while nursing. But it never bothered my partner, so we both just ignored it.
It all comes down to trust, and the intimate connection that ABF brings. For example, I and my partner would always keep our undies on for suckling, yet there was one time when a part of me felt tempted to take off our things and suckle naked. I didn’t dare to push any boundaries, so I resisted those unexpected feelings. However, had I asked her if she would be comfortable with taking her things off, she would probably have said yes, since the bond between us was really strong.
If one or both of you should happen to grow aroused, the best thing is to simply ask your partner about it. So long as the connection is there, you’ll fully accept each other no matter what, and decide how to deal with any worries or questions.
I’ve experienced one or two heated moments during nursing, mainly arguing over which position to switch to to stop my arm going to sleep 😉
The most important thing is to communicate expectations with your nursing partner and to be respectful of the other person’s boundaries.
I’ve had very relaxing and platonic nursing experiences that were completely non sexual. If those nursing partners became aroused, I did not know. They new the expectation was for it to be non sexual and they were very respectful.
I also had a nursing experience with a friend that was supposed to be non sexual but we had a very deep and profound connection that changed the way we viewed what we thought we wanted from nursing together, but we talked extensively about what we felt and what we expected future nursing to be like. In that case the connection was so strong that it was pretty obvious to both of us. There were moments at first when we didn’t know if the other person was feeling the same connection, but it became quite clear very fastI agree that communication is vital here. Both men and women should take condoms with them just in case in my opinion. I say, unless it’s been agreed otherwise just go with whatever feels natural. If you’ve already agreed before meeting that it’s definitely going to be platonic and you’re concerned about becoming noticeably aroused, you could clean the pipes before meeting, more than once if necessary 😂
Having a good rapport is necessary to ensure neither party is alarmed when something pops up. Discuss expectations, ground rules, where to initially meet, etc.., Having discussed these items beforehand makes a potentially sticky subject easier to handle.
When aroused remember the ground rules and stick by them. She will appreciate that you stand by the agreement.
I find breastfeeding very arousing. It happens, but further into the experience I settle down into a nice rhythmic suckle. A very nice experience it is.🤣😘🥰
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