What would make it better?

Well from experience, catfishing is one thing which could be improved, as you could be so close then boom. A catfish, very disappointing.

Im very understood of my competition as there’s other guys who have it better than I do, so honesty would be really nice I’m not your type or you found something more suitable for you🤷🏾‍♂️.

I’m only speaking for myself

Having some indication of what a member is prioritising on this site would be useful. We have a great mixed community here, some are looking for a LTR, others something more casual, others are not looking for a new relationship for good reasons but want to chat, others just want to be left alone to lurk off radar. You get the idea 😉 It makes for an interesting forum.

Some of the above I look for as well. Since I am looking for an LTR/ANR I would recommend adding basic interests, values, hobbies, personality, or favorite activities to their profile.(more the better)

The reason why I say this is because those looking for an LTR/ANR state on the forum and profiles that they want a message of substance that sparks connection. Even some of those looking for ABF state they want a connection with a person before they meet, but do not give the basics in their profile.

How can I give that initial message that conveys connection if I don’t have the basics to start with? Otherwise, I am left with 20 questions or forum responses to begin the conversation and hope for the best.

Checklist to add to the website with a list of things to answer as yes or no, so those folks that don’t like writing descriptions could just answer these questions at least, something along the above mentioned already.

Knowing what others expect/what they look for, their ethnicity, hobbies, etc, is very important for those seeking connections. If they don’t seek a connection but pure a one-time experience, such a question could be added to it too.

This could be more honest I think, so people that look for similar things can find each other faster. Too many accounts have nothing in their profiles.

I think a checklist or area on the profile that prompts what the person is looking for, whether they are willing to travel, whether they are single, married, divorced or widowed, would be helpful. Also, a space to identify what their interests/hobbies/hot topics might be would also be informative and help start up a conversation that doesn’t begin with “Are you lactating?” or “What is your bra size?”

If I remember correctly married is not an option under relationship status – we should be getting full disclosure. I know there are still those people that will be dishonest for whatever reason. But i would have liked that option. Further prompts as suggested above in the profile to get the obvious questions out of the way, the individual can choose what they answer. But I would be open to lactating/relactating/dry or bra size.