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I’m looking to create a world separate, private, and an outlet that will allow both people to live in an uncluttered moment. Intimacy, discretion, and comfortability is the base. I don’t have any hard requirements of certain physical or social aspects of a person, only that we are able to provide the other with what they need. I think sometimes setting a laundry list of requirements creates an unnecessary stressful situation, limits and sometimes robs us of engagement in unique experiences. It all starts with a conversation.
I personally like the lack of expectations and being open to a partner. There are some core characteristics or values of the inner person that are important to me though and I think whether they are outlined or not, they might come out eventually in interactions. But again, sometimes all may not be what it seems in this internet world because people are many times in a hurry and nuances of a situation are lost in chat conversations. So I think not judging someone too quickly and giving them several opportunities to be certain that the relationship is compatible or incompatible is the right action. All these are just my personal opinions btw 🙂 just from interacting with people. Patience and focus are keys that help me.
I could not have said it any better. For something that takes a heightened level of communication, I think being dismissive of someone because the first communication is lost in translation because it’s one dementional doesn’t give both parties the proper footing to make a connection and establish communication and to learn that persons nuances. Now if someone is rude and disrespectful, then that’s a different situation.
I really like the word one dimensional that you used to define modern online interactions. People tend to see one aspect of something in a magnified way because that is the focus or purpose of the initial contact or conversation and tend to forget that a person is complicated and has many beautiful facets that all together make an individual multidimensional. I thank you for sharing this post.
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