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Hello men on this site, I had 2 instances of inequality and want to know if there are similar situations..
1) a woman inquired about my picture and after chatting we agreed to exchange pics. She never sends hers, but gets mine and ghosts for 2 days. When I message asking for the picture she blocks me
2) woman received a hello welcome to the site, and automatically blocksDo you find being a guy doesn’t work, because there are woman who well accept a bad guy If he looks attractive.
And do you have any positive suggestions ?
There are all kinds of posts about blocking. Blocking is a tool available to everyone, and if someone chooses to block you, so be it. Best advice … Move on and don’t get bent out of shape. If you send a picture and don’t get a reply afterward… Don’t take it personally. That person is certainly taking the easy way out by not having the courtesy to respond or be honest with you. But by not replying, she gave you all the information you need. Move on. If someone blocks you, suck it up and swallow your pride. It happens. Don’t lose sleep over it. Keep trying and don’t look back. Posting about it won’t help your cause.
I don’t follow directions well….. hahah not a man but I have been blocked for what seems like no reason just don’t let it get to you! 🤷♀️
I have had two women that I am aware of block me, and I don’t remember interacting with either one of them. No skin off my nose.
Blocking and ghosting aren’t kind nor respectful, but those interactions don’t matter. I assume you’re here for a connection and those instances apply only to those individuals. Keep on trying and honor your values. You’ll find a match only if you do both.
@almondmilkownly, it happens often. Don’t let it stop you. Most people here are very nice and cordial. Good luck.
LOL…from a blocking standpoint without ever being in contact with the person other than to say hello…I’d just consider it as “missing a bullet” and count your lucky stars…many personality disorders and behavioral health issues are red flags to that kind of behavior.
I got blocked for asking if someones profile pic was taken at disneyland. Its confusing and hurts but trust me, it stings lot less then getting turned down. Don’t question what you wont get answers for.
Ghosting has no excuse though.
Very interesting. Perhaps if asked for a picture send yours after they send theirs. That electronic packet has been sent. It ain’t never coming back. Choose wisely.
About blocking, no biggie. Get over move on. Dodged a bullet, whatever.I’m pretty relaxed about both points you raise here. This is a community and like any community it has its angels, nerds, nutters, introverts, etc. Therefore don’t believe the points are specifically female behaviours, more community behaviours.
If I’m ghosted or blocked then I’m content that the other person felt that was the right decision for them, it’s no longer in my control so don’t sweat it. Focus on those that want to engage with you ☺️
If a woman starts a post saying “For women only please no me” then a man respond to the post, he will get eaten a live….. The creator of the this post said “Response from men only.. please”… yet…. SMH
@almondmilkownly Sadly, it is normal, it does not make it less disrespectful. I get blocked all the time for refusing to share my pic with someone I said hi to less than an hour ago. Keep your head up Sir!
@curiousaboutthis You go girl!
You’re a rebel!😜Thank you all for the response. I posted because it’s not the action it’s the intent that’s the issue.
Women can be complicating as hell and it’s to the point that it makes me not even want to be bothered with another woman regarding the whole ANR thing…..and I know I’m not interested in ANR regarding men so, I’d rather just leave the ANR thing alone period but, that’s just me. My advice for you is to just move on and hopefully you’ll find something….It seems like females be expecting to have things their way and they wanna make it all about their emotions/feelings rather than having logic and that’s just my two cents…. whoever doesn’t agree with this comment I could care less🤷🤷🤷🤷
Blackdollface,
“ It seems like females be expecting to have things their way and they wanna make it all about their emotions/feelings rather than having logic….”
I would be very appreciative of you enlightening me how you came to post in this topic that specifically calls out for male responses only? Having read your profile and numerous forum posts over time asking only for female responses, only for for very specific types of communication, I must admit I’m confused.
Respectfully submitted.
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