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Have you or would you date or be in a relationship with a woman who is on Only Fans or a similar site with mass media files of her and open comments?
I’d like to say yes as long as it didn’t go any further than that. Like messaging others. But in reality I couldn’t say.
@natasha – This is anecdotal. Dated before knowing, yes. Would date again? Never. It’s a downward spiraling situation even if you’re open-minded. I don’t envy the men in these tragic relationships. Perhaps it works for others.
Not too shabby at all for a foot model, but relatively low compared to what folks make for skimpier stuff. Great for a side hustle……debatable for sustainable relationships – ‘tragic’ is admittedly dramatic lol. Would love to hear about successful experiences..
Sure I would. Having dated a stripper way back when, I’d date an OF model. My then girlfriend was a regular person whose job was stripping.
I would have no problems with it. If that is part of her journey in this world, I’m not about to hold her back and so I would encourage it. I would be trying to be the best partner for her anyway, so that she could have fun while not being tempted to leave me.
Part of me wants to say yes to this. I’m an open minded person, not judgemental. I’m not the jealous or controlling type, either. In some ways, there’s an erotic and “kinky” aspect to the idea of it. But ultimately, I don’t think it would be sustainable for me in a long term, committed relationship. You can’t be 100% committed to someone if you’re putting yourself out there for the whole world (or at least, your paying audience) to see. I might be the anomaly though. I personally have never paid for sex or even subscribed to see an Only Fans performer. I’ve never been to a strip club and have no desire to go to one. To each his or her own. I do not judge anyone’s lifestyle or personal choices. But I doubt I could date anyone who made a living that way.
Sure, if she enjoyed it and liked the earning potential. That said, I’d balk at “online romances.”
Meantime, I’m okay if she wants to play with women, but not with guys.
Open communication is the thing. What is it that she wants ? what is her desire ? why is she on Only Fan ? Then you need to be honest to yourself….can I handle her wants, desires, and why’s ?
Absolutely not!
On a very basic level, you would have to ask yourself: First, are you more focused on building a video portfolio-vs-relationship building? Second, what are you fundamentally willing to sacrifice because something will have to give….
No, I wouldn’t. A big part of what is special about ANR, and a sexual relationship generally, is its intimacy between the couple. If she’s sharing the most intimate parts of her body with the public for a living, that undermines the intimacy of the relationship.
No, I cannot say I would. I am not in a relationship with anyone and yes it would be tempting, but the possibility of falling down into the rabbit’s hole and not finding my way out would be of great concern.
The industry from what I understand has a habit of swallowing up people and if they ever resurface they are never the same. It would be too risky for me.
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