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Has anyone ever had any dangerous or scary experiences with ANR? I am new to the community, so I want to know which precautions I should take.
One of my previous partner had it. Maybe not bad but creepy. While suckling her, he started snapping selfies without her permission, LMAO.
I haven’t heard of any bad experiences myself, but I would suggest, as I do, to meet in a public place first. It is a good way to “check out” the other person before going to his or your home.
You should take all precautions you take while meeting anyone from internet. I have known few lady friends with some bad experiences.
Hi Sorenya,
I hope this finds you well.
I agree with Herbie’s suggestion. Meet the person in-person first. Talk to them. Form a rapport. Do this as often as you need in order to feel comfortable.
Sadly, mental health for many people is on the decline right now due to the state of the world and while many initially present as having their ducks in a row, many do not.
Take time to get to know someone. Ask the questions and follow that gut feeling that we all have but too often don’t listen to.
And, NEVER let a man TELL you when you are going to make YOUR body available to him.
I saw someone’s profile out here in the past and the guy said that he insists the woman make herself available ”on demand”. That was outright scary to me. It’s clearly only a fetish to him and he has no respect whatsoever for the soul.
A woman’s body is HERS to do as she pleases.
I feel women should be in FULL control in the bedroom, especially during something as incredible intimate as ANR.
No man is going to tell me what to do in any regard, let alone with my body.
I have NO idea what men are thinking with such ignorant and scary mindsets. Yikes!
For any that are new to this lifestyle and reading this, please understand that this requires an incredible level of mutuality, communication and trust whether dry, or wet, whether long-term or short-term. Whether in love or in like. It’s a form of intimacy, period.
If you want the physical but aren’t willing to tap into the emotional side of bonding, then this is NOT for you.
Blessings to you all.
I had experience of someone someone who tries to win my heart to be my breast friend but not until i gave him the chance to suck my nipples for once and not knowing that he took selfie while he’s sucking my breast and he send my pictures to all his friends to laugh on me.. Then i gotta change my location…
A couple of years ago I was chatting to someone I intended to meet. After chatting a little a realised we weren’t on the same page, so I told them then cut contact.
They ended up searching for me on social media, ‘stalking’ me online :/ I confronted her about it and she didn’t think it was a big deal, but stopped. That pissed me off.
Since then I don’t give out my personal details to anyone. Some probably think I’m hiding or not single but I have my reasons *shrug*.
I’ve had scammers try to blackmail me, steal my identity, and once long ago had a stalker. It’s just like everything else on the internet just assume 99% is bs trying to get something from you.
I had this girl from my university had me shave then strip to my brief’s then recorded our session without my consent. My current partner won’t even let me touch her breast just suck them and only host at her place. I guess my first partner just spoiled me rotten. I’m not gonna give up though! So @Vish I know how you feel!
I had a strange experience. I was planning to meet someone from an ANR site. We had talked on the phone first (her suggestion) and she seemed to ask reasonable and appropriate questions about my nursing experience, etc. So she suggested meeting for “tea”. I’m in the US, so most people would suggest coffee, but OK. Then she said she’d text me about an hour before we were to meet with the place where she wanted to meet. A little weird, but OK.
So when the time comes, she texts me an address — not the name of a cafe, just an address. So I look up the address and it’s more of a nicer restaurant — not a place one would normally meet for “tea”. I asked her about it and she said, “oh, well, I think they have tea.” By now, all kinds of red flags were going off. I imagined her having 3 men standing by ready to jump me and mug me. I told her I changed my mind about meeting her and blocked her. Creepy.
@megasucker Hello, maybe I confused you a bit. That wasn’t my experience, just one of my partners.
I’ve been scammed and I’ve had potential partners attempt blackmail and extortion. But those are rare and I’ve been doing this now for 15 years or so.
@cornshell, may be she wanted a dinner date in a nice restaurant. People do that. Take date for a ride for free food and plenty of left over and nice bottles of wine or liquor for home!
I just recently got scammed. Ladies, if you want to know his info, PM me.
Thanks!
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