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Hey guys,
Another question, if the females is not already lactating (or maybe early lactation) and she has a partner. Who pays for the supplies (pump, supplements etc.)? Do you split it down the middle, does the female pay, does the male pay? It takes not only a lot of time but money to get serious about this journey. So what has your experience been?
I have paid for half on the past. Always willing to assist.
Previous partner helped some with the purchase of pumps
He did always buy me nursing bras!@jules That’s awesome. I also barely know everything that I need. I didn’t think about it until I was asked I had some lol
I think it depends on the situation. Most of the gals here are single searching for a partner. Some of those are already lactating and have already invested in their journey. Others who are single and considering lactating or are currently in a relationship with a partner and dry suckling usually discuss the investment. And others who are considering “relactation” either have a partner or are seeking a partner and usually decide to make the purchases on their own.
Hi Lala
I have paid for all my lactation costs. When I have had a partner, I have typically had them pay for my meals to turn into milk or do some grocery shopping for me 😅🤣
I have covered all my inducing lactation supplies. My boyfriend has pretty much left that all to me. It was my idea though really. I had occasionally been leaking drops and he told me how much he had enjoyed milk “straight from the tap” when his ex wife was nursing their kids. I did some research and here we are. He just enjoys the benefits. He does a lot for me and it feels good to give something back to him. I do utilize my HSA account as much as possible though.
I paid half and also bought her nursing bras and tops.
When I induced my partner was the source of inducing from lots of regular suckling, and I already had a pump from having a child. If there was something to purchase I guess it would depend on who wanted it happen and how much work would it be for me.
Ive paid for every thing. In a relationship situation i think split bills would be the right thing to do .
If I was partnered and we decided to induce lactation, then we would share the expenses.
I would do my Groggy best to keep a pump in its box.😉😏🤗@seriousmilker There is always the option of having your partner induce you, if that is your goal. Make it a shared effort; the benefit of ABF/ANR is the closeness and interaction, not the milk. That’s why the majority of women on this site are not inducing, including myself. I prefer to wait for a partner, and make it a shared experience. See how far we take it. Most men truly interested in ABF ANR are interested in the whole process, not just the end result.
I am a serious daily and often inducer. I have the luxury of my own business at home to be a dedicated gentleman. I pay for everything unless convinced insisted otherwise. Gentlemen and chivalry I am told is a lost art at times…knighttt
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